stop spending en-US 8 Ways to Stop Spending — Today <div class="field field-type-filefield field-field-blog-image"> <div class="field-items"> <div class="field-item odd"> <a href="/8-ways-to-stop-spending-today" class="imagecache imagecache-250w imagecache-linked imagecache-250w_linked"><img src="" alt="stop " title="stop" class="imagecache imagecache-250w" width="250" height="167" /></a> </div> </div> </div> <p>As Americans we&rsquo;re conditioned to spend money from the time we&rsquo;re wee boys and girls. The power of capitalism makes us want, want, want, so that by the time we&rsquo;re barely legal adults, we&rsquo;re already in debt. That&rsquo;s what happened to me. As soon as I turned 18, I had creditors ringing my phone off the hook asking if I&rsquo;d like a credit card. A credit card, you ask? You mean one of those beautiful, shiny pieces of plastic that&rsquo;ll allow me to buy whatever I want without paying for it?! Yes, please. Sign me up for two!</p> <p>You can probably guess how that went down. Three months later the cards were maxed out, and I had creditors ringing my phone off the hook for a different reason. After years of avoiding their persistence while continuing to rack up late fees, I finally settled my bills and made the difficult decision to stop spending money. (See also: <a target="_blank" href="">5 Dead Simple Reasons Why People Are Frugal</a>)</p> <p>That&rsquo;s not entirely true, of course. I have to spend money, but I do spend it much differently these days. Specifically, I don&rsquo;t spend money I don&rsquo;t have. I pay my bills on time, and my sole credit card is for emergencies only. Those two self-imposed rules have helped me get my finances back on track over the past few years, and they can help you, too.</p> <p>If you&rsquo;re <a target="_blank" href="">drowning in debt</a> or just want to learn how to cut back, consider these helpful tips on how to stop spending and start climbing out of debt &mdash; today.</p> <h2>1. Cut Up Those Credit Cards</h2> <p>First things first &mdash; get rid of that glistening temptation that will make you broke and keep you broke for years on end. I&rsquo;m not one of those personal finance preachers who thinks credit cards are the devil, mind you, but in the wrong hands they can certainly wreak havoc. If you lack the self-control to put the credit cards in a locked safe or other hiding place only to use them for dire situations, cut them up all together. Out of sight, out of mind is the general consensus. But even better is the fact that you can&rsquo;t abuse something you don&rsquo;t have to begin with.</p> <h2>2. Pay Your Bills Immediately</h2> <p>Paying your bills as soon as they arrive is a good tactic for curbing your spending because you won&rsquo;t have as much money left when all is said and done. Get those bills out of the way as soon as possible, and you won&rsquo;t be compelled to hit up the bar or shop for new kicks when you see how little is left over.</p> <h2>3. Set Savings Goals</h2> <p>When you set savings goals, you&rsquo;ll <a target="_blank" href="">have something toward which to work</a>. It&rsquo;s not enough, however, to set a dollar amount to put in your savings account each week. Rather, set a monetary goal that&rsquo;s attached to something tangible that will benefit you, like college courses, a car, or a house. If you really want to improve your life with these mega purchases, you&rsquo;ll be less likely to spend money like it&rsquo;s going out of style.</p> <h2>4. Leave Your Debit Card at Home</h2> <p>It&rsquo;s difficult for me to leave home without my debit card because it&rsquo;s kind of a security blanket, but when that card is in my pocket, I use it. I use it for everything, including purchases less than a dollar. I think those purchases are insignificant but too many <a target="_blank" href="">can add up quickly</a>. So when I really need to cut back, I leave the debit card at home, so I&rsquo;m not tempted to swipe on impulse.</p> <p>Which leads me to the next tip&hellip;</p> <h2>5. Only Carry a Small Amount of Cash for Emergencies</h2> <p>I don&rsquo;t recommend that you leave the house without any access to money, so as a compromise carry a small amount of cash on you for emergencies. The psychology of spending cash will almost always make you spend less (but hopefully none at all) because you can actually see the real dollars leaving your hand opposed to the invisible electronic funds from a debit card.</p> <h2>6. Don&rsquo;t Tempt Yourself With Sales</h2> <p>If you&rsquo;re on a spending freeze, stay away from sales at all costs. You may think you&rsquo;re saving money, but often times the exact opposite is true. When I go shopping, for example, I tend to go overboard at a sale because the deals are just so good. If I purchased something at the full retail price, however, I&rsquo;m much less likely to spend anymore. That one purchase with a hefty price tag will scare me away from most everything else. Conversely, the low prices at sales actually feed my desire to get more at rock bottom prices, which I don&rsquo;t have to tell you rack up quickly.</p> <h2>7. Busy Yourself With Things That Don&rsquo;t Cost Money</h2> <p>Stop spending money today by staying away from anything that costs money. Simple as that, really. Engage in free activities, clean the house, bury yourself in work, and otherwise participate in something productive that keeps your mind off your wallet and occupied on a positive alternative to spending cash.</p> <h2>8. Find a Support Group</h2> <p>If you find that you&rsquo;re having trouble not spending money, you may have a serious problem &mdash; and you&rsquo;re not alone. Which I why I suggest finding a support group for over spenders so you can get that problem under control before it takes over your life. It can happen, and I can tell you firsthand that it&rsquo;s not a road you want to go down if you can help it.</p> <p><em>Have more tips on how to stop spending money today? Let me know in the comments below.</em></p> <br /><div id="custom_wisebread_footer"><div id="rss_tagline">This article is from <a href="">Mikey Rox</a> of <a href="">Wise Bread</a>, an award-winning personal finance and <a href="">credit card comparison</a> website. Read more great articles from Wise Bread:</div><div class="view view-similarterms view-id-similarterms view-display-id-block_2 view-dom-id-1"> <div class="view-content"> <div class="item-list"> <ul> <li class="views-row views-row-1 views-row-odd views-row-first"> <div class="views-field-title"> <span class="field-content"><a href="">How to Go on a Financial Detox</a></span> </div> </li> <li class="views-row views-row-2 views-row-even"> <div class="views-field-title"> <span class="field-content"><a href="">This Simple Calculation Will Tell You If You&#039;re Getting Your Money&#039;s Worth</a></span> </div> </li> <li class="views-row views-row-3 views-row-odd"> <div class="views-field-title"> <span class="field-content"><a href="">47 Simple Ways To Waste Money</a></span> </div> </li> <li class="views-row views-row-4 views-row-even"> <div class="views-field-title"> <span class="field-content"><a href="">This Is How Americans Spent Their Money in the 1950s</a></span> </div> </li> <li class="views-row views-row-5 views-row-odd views-row-last"> <div class="views-field-title"> <span class="field-content"><a href="">8 Little Luxuries That Go a Long Way</a></span> </div> </li> </ul> </div> </div> </div> </div><br/></br> Budgeting Lifestyle Shopping emergency plan impulse spending stop spending Tue, 04 Jun 2013 10:00:34 +0000 Mikey Rox 976337 at How to Go on a Financial Detox <div class="field field-type-filefield field-field-blog-image"> <div class="field-items"> <div class="field-item odd"> <a href="/how-to-go-on-a-financial-detox" class="imagecache imagecache-250w imagecache-linked imagecache-250w_linked"><img src="" alt="Woman leaping on the beach" title="Woman leaping on the beach" class="imagecache imagecache-250w" width="250" height="188" /></a> </div> </div> </div> <p>You've probably heard the term &quot;cleanse&quot; or &quot;detox&quot; in reference to physical health. &quot;Detoxification&quot; originally referred to the process that drug addicts go through when experiencing withdrawals associated with severe addiction. The concept of &quot;detoxing&quot; has taken on less severe connotations in recent years, but still involves the same basic principle &mdash; removing toxins from the body so as to attain a healthier state. The most basic &ldquo;detoxes&rdquo; or &ldquo;cleanses&rdquo; are pretty simple. Some people stop eating processed foods. Some people might go as far as fasting for a couple of days (or longer), others take expensive fiber capsules to &ldquo;flush&rdquo; out their system, and the most fanatical might combine all of these with a trip to the sweat lodge and a good high colonic. The principle is obvious &mdash; add clean fluids to the system so as to push toxin-laden systems out.</p> <p>I&rsquo;m not dissing detox &mdash; I think that a well-controlled body cleanse can be good, if managed carefully. But there are plenty of websites to guide you through an intestinal cleansing &mdash; what if your biggest problem is not your clogged colon, but your hemorrhaging bank account? Then you&rsquo;ve got a different kind of toxin &mdash; toxic spending. (See also: <a href="">37 Savings Changes&nbsp;You&nbsp;Can Make Today</a>)</p> <h2>Toxic Spending</h2> <p>Toxic spending is spending that you can&rsquo;t control (and as a rule, spending that you can&rsquo;t afford).</p> <p>Roughly 90% of detoxing involves preventing new toxins from entering your system. Whether your detoxing from heroin, nicotine, or caffeine, the first step is to stop the toxins from re-entering your body. Flushing toxins from your body is an important step in detoxing, but it&rsquo;s pointless if you don&rsquo;t plan on preventing toxins from re-appearing.</p> <p>The same can be said of a spending detox &mdash; the majority of the cleansing process is learning to stop stupid spending behavior from reoccurring. Toxic spending must be reduced, or even stopped altogether.</p> <p>A spending detox is all about prevention, planning, and learning to let some things slide.</p> <h2>Locating Unidentified Toxins</h2> <p>When you embark on a bodily detox, you probably already familiar with the majority of the toxins that are making you feel sluggish &mdash; because you probably put them in your system knowingly. You know you aren&rsquo;t supposed to smoke, and you&rsquo;re aware that five cups of coffee per day might be a bit much. You know that you will feel better if you take it a little easier on the martinis.</p> <p>But there are also toxins in your system that you can&rsquo;t identify &mdash; and you may never know that they are there. Free radicals, pollutants from the environment, beauty products, and chemicals coating our foods; we may feel the effects of these toxins, but we&rsquo;re not necessarily aware of their specific presence.</p> <p>The same goes for toxic spending &mdash; there&rsquo;s the spending you know, and the spending you don&rsquo;t even realize is taking place. If you frequently find yourself staring at a negative checking balance and can&rsquo;t figure out how you got there, then you&rsquo;re probably facing an unknown toxic purchase or two.</p> <p>How do you find the hidden toxins in your spending? Simple &mdash; you examine your bills and bank accounts in great detail. If you receive paper bills, go over them with a highlighter and a fine-toothed comb&hellip; OK, just a highlighter. Mark any purchase or charge that you see that you don&rsquo;t recognize and investigate. There should be a phone number associated with purchases made online &mdash; call and find out what the heck it is that you bought.</p> <p>On utility bills, look for hidden fees or charges that you don&rsquo;t recognize. Cell phone companies are always trying to add new services to your account without your permission, and we all know how major banks are trying to figure out ways to charge you for things that used to be free &mdash; you know, like checking accounts themselves.</p> <p>If you use online banking, export the last three months of your checking account ledger into a spreadsheet. Sort by transaction name/type, and then delete extraneous information. I do this on a semi-regular basis because I have never seen a bank that is willing to present most of my purchases in an easily examined format online. My bank, for instance, only displays the last 30 purchases made &mdash; since I make almost all of my purchases with a debit card, this means that I only see about five days at a time and have to keep clicking NEXT to see purchases made before that. A spreadsheet allows me to sort and track ALL monthly expenditures, which is how I find out when a software vendor charged me a monthly maintenance fee for a product I don&rsquo;t use or my bank tacks new fees onto my account without notifying me.</p> <p>Once you&rsquo;ve found unknown expenses and dealt with them, you will still need to monitor your accounts to ensure that they don&rsquo;t reappear.</p> <h2>Admitting to Known Toxins</h2> <p>Most of your toxic spending should already be familiar to you, because it&rsquo;s something that you do regularly, impulsively, or both.</p> <p>When it comes to performing a physical detoxification, there are certain toxins that are physically addictive and thus difficult to quit. This is because the chemical reaction between your brain and these chemical makes your brain want more, and drives your behavior by making you crave the toxin (or at least, the package the toxin comes in) and rewarding you for providing the toxin.</p> <p>Impulsive spending can function like a physical addiction, actually creating similar chemical reactions in your body &mdash; flooding your brain with <a href="">dopamine and endorphins</a> when you buy a new pair of shoes, for instance. Feeling good when you buy something isn&rsquo;t a bad thing &mdash; unless you can&rsquo;t afford to buy that new pair of shoes, or SUV, or flat screen television.</p> <p>There are other spending habits that cause pleasure in the brain, not so much because of the purchase itself, but because of the culture surrounding the purchase. Getting a $4 coffee drink halfway through the morning at Starbucks with your coworkers, for instance. It&rsquo;s not so much that you enjoy the spending; it&rsquo;s that you enjoy the environment in which the spending takes place and would feel badly about not participating. This is social spending, and while it may not result in obscene amounts of debt, it can certainly cut into potential retirement savings.</p> <p>There are other types of toxic habitual spending that aren&rsquo;t necessarily social, but that are equally damaging to your bottom line &mdash; like dining out because you don&rsquo;t have time to cook. Whether it&rsquo;s breakfast, lunch, or dinner (or all three meals) that you can&rsquo;t find time to prepare, dining out is a significant drain on the wallet. Every time you dine out or order in, you&rsquo;re not just paying for food, but for labor. Of course, that&rsquo;s half of the appeal with take-out food &mdash; you don&rsquo;t have to do the dishes. But the increased cost rapidly adds up.</p> <p>I'm not referring to occasional splurges on dinner, or even constant splurging on dinner &mdash; if you can afford it. What I am referring to is <em>uncontrolled habitual spending</em>. It&rsquo;s damaging to your financial health in the same way that environment toxins and drugs are damaging to your physical health. It's toxic because it keeps you from ever finding financial security.</p> <h2>Short-Term Cleanse</h2> <p>Once you&rsquo;ve identified the poisons that are making your bank account sluggish, you have to change the behaviors that lead to the toxic spending. Just like a physical detox, you might have to make some serious behavioral adjustments, change some long-held habits, and even change some social relationships. Abrupt lifestyle and spending changes are easier to handle when you know that the change is temporary. As an experiment, try a toxic spending cleanse for a fixed period of time, and see how much money you save and how you feel.</p> <h3>Go Cold Turkey</h3> <p>Like quitting any number of other addictive behaviors, toxic spending habits can be stopped by drastic measures &mdash; going cold turkey. The key here is to know that the stoppage is temporary. You&rsquo;re going to stop dining out, stop getting weekly manicures, stop going on spending sprees at Target &mdash; for a month. One month. You can do this.</p> <h3>Make an Announcement</h3> <p>If the spending changes that you need to make actually bite into your social life, it can be good to give friends, family, and coworkers a heads-up. You don&rsquo;t have to go into great detail or divulge the totality of your debt, but you might want to make a couple of phone calls, or send out a few emails, and tell people why you need to take a break from trivia night, Chinese Food Fridays, or shopping with the girls. Simple and honest explanations, like trying to really reign in spending, or hoping to cut back on unnecessary calories, are usually accepted.</p> <h3>Avoid Your Triggers</h3> <p>Uncontrollable spending usually has some sort of catalyst that triggers the impulsive behavior.</p> <p><strong>Make It Harder to Spend</strong></p> <p>Do you use your credit card too much? Put that puppy where you won&rsquo;t use it. Online shopping addict? Delete all of your credit and debit card info from your PayPal account. Eliminate the ease of spending money, which will make you think twice when you see something on that you just HAVE TO HAVE. Temporarily suspend your daily online deals subscriptions, like Groupon and LivingSocial. Don't put temptation right in front of you.</p> <p><strong>Avoid Manipulative Media</strong></p> <p>Personally, I can't read a women's magazine without immediately running out and shopping immediately after. Some TV shows, like <em>Mad Men</em>, also <a href="">trigger some strange spending reflex</a> in me &mdash; I WANT to be stylish; I NEED to be pretty. When I quit reading women's magazines a few years ago, I got my impulse shopping under control. If you stay up late watching infomercials and end up buying one unnecessary blender after another, trade in your late night TV for a really good novel instead.</p> <p><strong>Reward Yourself in Other Ways</strong></p> <p>Doing good by yourself shouldn't be agonizing, even if it is challenging at first. It's OK to give yourself treats &mdash; a fro-yo after a week of dining in every night, or a night at home with a good DVD and a glass of red wine (instead of a full-price movie ticket), after you've avoided H&amp;M for seven straight days. Remember, if you're an <a href="">impulse shopper</a>, you are denying your brain the addictive high that it gets from shopping, so it's not a sin to provide it with other ways to be happy. Just be careful not to replace one addiction with another.</p> <h3>See What You&rsquo;ve Accomplished</h3> <p>At the end of one month, look at your bank account &mdash; are you shocked by how easily bills have been paid? Do you have more money leftover than you thought possible, given your salary? If not, you can try a deeper spending detox. If so, you have a couple of choices &mdash; return to business as usual, or alter your future behavior to make your detox permanent.</p> <h2>Long-Term Spending Detox</h2> <p>Once you&rsquo;ve seen what you can manage in a month, try seeing how many of your behavioral changes can be incorporated into your lifestyle in the long run.</p> <h3>Assess Relationships</h3> <p>There are plenty of relationships that are as toxic as a drug. Do you have friends or family who make you feel like you need to spend money, either on yourself or on them, in order to be loved or accepted? Whether the pressure is truly external or imagined, the relationship needs to change in some way &mdash; you need to assess why you feel the need to behave in a financially irresponsible way when around such people. Decide if any changes you can make to the relationship, or your perception of it, will fix the issue.</p> <h3>Simplify/Plan Ahead/Collaborate</h3> <p>Some of the worst spending habits are caused by time-management issues &mdash; it&rsquo;s not that we WANT to order take-out every night, it&rsquo;s that it&rsquo;s darn near impossible to get up early enough to care for family, pets, and ourselves while still finding time to shop, cook, and clean.</p> <p>This is where teamwork and planning come into play. Take the free time that you have (and you probably have some, and you probably spend it watching TV, so pick one evening of the week and don&rsquo;t watch TV, OK?) and <a href="">plan your meals for the week</a>. This doesn&rsquo;t have to be an exact science &mdash; just allow yourself the extra time to put together meals that provide leftovers. Leftovers are the key to packing your own lunch. Who has time to make a sandwich in the morning? Not me. But taking a Tupperware container from the fridge? That&rsquo;s just seconds of my time.</p> <p>If you live with family or roommates, try coordinating a trade-off in cooking duties every week. This might not work in every instance, but if it does, it can reduce the amount of time, and pressure, that is put on you to create healthy meals every week.</p> <p>What about those nights out with peers? If you think that your friends or colleagues might want to follow the same detoxifying route, you can propose a group change &mdash; maybe you and your work buddies can pack lunch every day and eat in the lunchroom together, rather than ordering teriyaki. Perhaps your girlfriends would enjoy hanging out and watching a movie at your house while enjoying home manicures &mdash; it may sound hokey, but you&rsquo;d be surprised how many of your friends are probably struggling with finances as well.</p> <p>Don&rsquo;t be hurt if people continue on as before without you, though &mdash; just because everyone still meets up at the bar on Friday night doesn&rsquo;t mean that they don&rsquo;t value your friendship.</p> <h3>Analyze and Prioritize</h3> <p>Sometimes we form toxic spending habits simply because we believe in the necessity of the habit. Often, the habit itself can seem like a smart choice &mdash; like regular salon appointments. You&rsquo;ve been told that regular haircuts (and updated color, and styles) are good for the health of your hair, and even your social life. But are they? That depends &mdash; does anyone really care about your hair? As long as it is clean and brushed and not falling in your eyes, does it matter if the style isn't avant garde?</p> <p>If a seemingly &quot;necessary&quot; spending habit becomes unaffordable, you need to decide if your habits' frequencies, or cost, can be reduced. Can you get by with going to the stylist once every other month? Can you find a stylist who charges less? Can you join a gym that doesn&rsquo;t cost $99 a month? Or skip the gym and work out at home?</p> <h3>Funnel Your Savings Somewhere Safe</h3> <p>It can be incredibly easy to fall back into old habits, especially once you have built up a buffer in your checking account &mdash; suddenly, you realize that you can go on more than one shopping spree! And before you know it, your checking account is back down to zero. To prevent this (and trust me, if you have a shopping addiction, you'll want to take this step), set that extra money somewhere that makes it tough to get to. You don't have to put it in an IRA or a CD, although you certainly could. But at least stash it in a free savings account that isn't connected to any of your credit or debit cards.</p> <p>Detoxing isn't just about getting rid of bad spending behaviors &mdash; you have to keep from forming new ones. Any time you find yourself guilty staring at a bank statement and realizing that you've spent yourself into a hole, you can try a spending detox to see if you can regain financial balance.</p> <br /><div id="custom_wisebread_footer"><div id="rss_tagline">This article is from <a href="">Andrea Karim</a> of <a href="">Wise Bread</a>, an award-winning personal finance and <a href="">credit card comparison</a> website. Read more great articles from Wise Bread:</div><div class="view view-similarterms view-id-similarterms view-display-id-block_2 view-dom-id-2"> <div class="view-content"> <div class="item-list"> <ul> <li class="views-row views-row-1 views-row-odd views-row-first"> <div class="views-field-title"> <span class="field-content"><a href="">8 Ways to Stop Spending — Today</a></span> </div> </li> <li class="views-row views-row-2 views-row-even"> <div class="views-field-title"> <span class="field-content"><a href="">Are Your Financial Habits Just Bad?</a></span> </div> </li> <li class="views-row views-row-3 views-row-odd"> <div class="views-field-title"> <span class="field-content"><a href="">Debit Or Credit? Which One Should You Choose At The Checkout?</a></span> </div> </li> <li class="views-row views-row-4 views-row-even"> <div class="views-field-title"> <span class="field-content"><a href="">9 Simple Ways to Stop Impulse Buying</a></span> </div> </li> <li class="views-row views-row-5 views-row-odd views-row-last"> <div class="views-field-title"> <span class="field-content"><a href="">How I Saved $3,190 With a $50 HDTV Antenna</a></span> </div> </li> </ul> </div> </div> </div> </div><br/></br> Budgeting Debt Management Shopping bad money habits impusive shopper stop spending Thu, 12 Jan 2012 11:36:13 +0000 Andrea Karim 862534 at