What Does Frugal Living Mean to You?

By David Ning on 28 June 2010 8 comments
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Let me ask you this. If your friend recently bought a $1 million dollar house, is that an act of frugality? What if she could actually buy a house worth $10 million but decided to spend only 1/10 of what she could really afford? Does that change your answer? A $500,000 house is VERY expensive amongst many social circles, but Warren Buffett, the billionaire investor, is always praised about his lack of desire to spend on luxury because he is still living in his house thought to be worth about $500,000.

When you are the second richest person in the world, are you frugal if you opted for a million dollar home instead of buying a multimillion dollar mansion? I mean, a million dollars to Warren Buffett is like the cost of dinner to most of the general public! Shouldn't he be using a different scale when it comes to what is deemed frugal?

Frugality Is Relative

Most of the time, we judge others' financial habits by what we can see from the outside — the clothes they wear, the cars they drive, and the house they buy. We never realize how much money they make, and never compare what they spend as it relates to what they can actually afford. Keeping up with the Joneses? What if Mr. Jones is a billionaire?

As you can see, the meaning of frugality is relative. What frugal living means to you may be totally different than what it means for someone else. Your neighbor could buy a $1,000 purse and she could still be frugal, while a $100 pair of shoes from another neighbor could mean that he spent too lavishly. So how can you compare? Your coworkers may have a large inheritance, your friends could have married rich, and your neighbors might be fortunate enough to run a successful business. You don't know other people's situation, and more importantly, why does it matter anyway?

  • Does your neighbor's BMW help you get to a comfortable retirement faster?
  • Does your coworker's lavish vacation make your retirement more relaxing?
  • Does your friend's purse hold more secrets to your financial independence?

Take frugal living personally. In other words, stop minding other people's business like trying to keep up with the Joneses and be happy that you are frugal and that you are working towards your financial independence. In your own way of course.

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Great advice. So many times I see people trying to compete with others their same age in the same type of job. It's ashame that we're in a society where it's about what you own.

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I wish we could all stop competing with each other. We would save a lot more money and end up a lot happier.

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Frugal means cutting living expenses and live within your means. spend less than you make. you know like our grandmothers use to do. Live on a budget.

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Also, to clarify about frugality, Warren Buffet's house in Omaha was purchased by him in 1958 for $31,500. I like the concept of staying in the same home and living in it when all of the people I know around me are upgrading to the next bigger house. Seriously, how much space do you need??

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I have found that the older I get, the less frugal I can be. I like my special 'more expensive' things nowadays. I could get by in the old days with ramon noodles. Not anymore.

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my handy-dandy dictionary says frugal means "simple, plain, and costing little". i think you are confusing "frugal" with "living below your means".

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I agree that frugality is totally relative. Also, buying a house is an expensive investment and money can come out as a problem. But, fast personal loans are now available at this website, which you can reach by clicking on the link provided in the title.

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Totally agree. If a person can afford a $10 million house and lives in a $500,000 house, that's definitely frugal. It takes a certain wisdom to stop wasting time judging other people about their spending habits and to redirect energy to correcting one's own financial course.

Perhaps it's optimism that keeps most Americans overspending. Maybe most people think that a miracle will happen and that financial security will come to them in some unknown manner. But the celebrity frenzy that makes people want to LIVE like a millionaire instead of actually BEING a millionaire doesn't leave much room for wisdom.

Getting debt-free and continuing to save for even more freedom: Now that's wisdom.