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A man of no ambition

A memory came to me this morning while I was walking the dog, a memory of those days when I was fresh out of college and just beginning to work for my father at the box factory.

A salesman had come knocking on our door. This was strange since the box factory was (and still is) located in a rural area. But somehow this guy had found us and he was there to make his pitch: He was a salesman who trained salesmen. (And, presumably, saleswomen although this wasn't part of the spiel in 1992.)

Dad, amused, introduced this fellow to me. “This is J.D.,” Dad said. “He's our salesman. Talk to him.” So, this guy sat down with me in a back room of the shabby trailer house that served as company HQ. (This was the very trailer house I'd grown up in. And trust me when I say it was a pit, a sty. It was just as bad as you're imagining. Maybe worse.)

How to start a website in 2024

(This was originally published on 13 October 2022.)

I started this website two decades ago. The first time the Internet Archive captured the site was back in April 2004. I registered the domain in 2003.

Back then I was hand-crafting HTML pages in a text editor, and managing all of the links by hand. I had found a website template that gave me the sidebar, and worked from there. I composed the pages on my computer and then transferred them to a webhost via FTP to “publish” them.

Not the most difficult thing in the world to do, but certainly not the easiest.

Then I found WordPress

In mid-2005, after being on blogger.com for only a couple of weeks, I found out about WordPress, and my content creation at the time shot through the roof.

Sabbatical

My mother died Monday night. She was 74.

Earlier this week, I began writing a memorial for her. I know I haven't talked much about Mom here at Get Rich Slowly, but she probably played the biggest role in molding me into the person I am today. After writing 2500 words, I realized I have a lot to process. And maybe Get Rich Slowly isn't the place to publish a tribute to her. I don't know.

In any event, I'm taking some time off.

For the next few weeks, I'll be dealing with the logistics of Mom's memorial service and her estate. And while I'm taking time away from Get Rich Slowly to handle these things, it feels like a good opportunity to tackle a few big projects I've been putting off — including the “de-design” of this blog.

The right way to use referral sites

I recently ran across a new-ish referral site called invitation.codes.

It's a site that aims to be one-stop shopping for referral bonuses. These are the extra sign-on goodies that you sometimes get when signing up as a new user on a site.

Often a website will offer a bonus to its current users for referring new users. This is usually good business practice because the current users will work for free, and only get rewarded when someone signs up. It's cheap marketing labor!

Even better when the site throws in something for the new user to help the current user get the sign-up. Generally money well spent by the business.

Why I bought a NEW car

I am 53 years old. Never in my life have I allowed myself to buy a car I truly love…until now. This is the story of how I allowed myself to make a huge purchase just for the joy of it. And it wasn't even a purchase I'd intended to make. Let me explain.

During the peak of the pandemic (early July 2020), I paid $35,990 for a used 2019 Mini Countryman SE All4. The Countryman — which I call a “Maxi Cooper” — isn't a bad car, but I regretted buying it almost immediately. I'd intended to replace my 2004 Mini Cooper with a newer version of the same model, but allowed myself to be talked into a compact SUV.

For two years, I drove the Maxi Cooper and tolerated it. It wasn't a bad car by any means, but it was a bad car for me. I'm not an SUV guy. I'm a small-car guy.

Last month, I took the Maxi Cooper for an oil change. While I was waiting, the dealer offered to buy it back from me. I wasn't expecting that.

How self-centered shopping has made me happier with the things I buy

I've changed the way I shop over the past few years. And although the shift has been subtle, I've found that I'm much happier with the things I buy.

In the past, my approach to shopping was simple. If I wanted a new thneed, I would go to a store (or, with the advent of the internet, a website) and choose from the available thneeds. I'd look at the store's selection (or the website's selection) and pick the one best suited for me.

If the thneed I wanted was particularly expensive or important, I might expand my search to multiple stores or multiple websites. But usually, I stuck with the first store I visited.

The key point here is that I allowed the places I shopped to impose limits on the thneeds available to me. I think of this approach as “store-centered shopping”. Whatever the store has in stock defines my universe of options.

Finding your people: Why you should do it

Finding your people is the best thing for your spiritual well-being, your personal growth … and your bank account!

A friend of mine has collected beer cans for four and a half decades. He started in his teens (yeah, times were different then!)

A little over a week ago he went to his first CANvention since the 1980s — or as the younger people say, the “late 1900s” haha!

These breweriana collectors are his people. They're people he can geek out with and not have to explain a thing to anyone because he's not a weirdo when he hangs out with these people.

Who coined the term FI/RE (financially-independent, retired early)?

It's always fun to unearth some esoteric piece of personal finance history. I know there are only a few nerds out there who care (hello, Grant Sabatier!), but those of us who care really care.

What I learned at Fincon 2022

It's Sunday morning as I write this, and my weeklong adventure at Fincon 2022 in Orlando has come to an end. I'm exhausted.

As has become customary, I didn't actually attend any workshops or keynotes or breakout sessions here at Fincon. Instead, I spent the entire week connecting with friends:

Call for reader questions and stories!

This week I'm in Orlando for Fincon, the annual gathering of folks who work at the intersection of money and media. As a result, I haven't had time to do all of the things I normally do during a week. I haven't been reading or writing about money. Instead, I've done a lot of chatting with colleagues.

We've been coming together at Fincon since 2011. At first, we were nearly all strangers to each other. Today, many of these people are my closest friends — but they're friends I see in person only once or twice each year. I value every moment I get to spend with them.

On Tuesday, for instance, a group of us booked a private VIP tour through the Disney theme parks. We had a blast. I mean, look at this wretched hive of scum and villainy…

Designing my life, part one: Building a compass

Last week, I raved about the book Designing Your Life by Bill Burnett and Dave Evans. These two Stanford design professors have taken design principles and applied them to helping people figure out what they want to be when they grow up.

After advocating Designing Your Life to several friends, two of them suggested that we work through the book's exercises together. One of those friends is Kim, my long-term girlfriend. The other is Craig, a college classmate. I thought it might be fun to share some of these exercises as we complete them over the next couple of months.

Designing your life

I am obsessed with the film Everything Everywhere All at Once. From the moment I saw the trailer, I knew the movie was meant for me. I was right. The film's bizarre blend of action, philosophy, science fiction, taxes, and juvenile humor feels specifically targeted to me and my brain.

For those unfamiliar, here's a quick plot synopsis.

Evelyn and Waymond Wang own a laundromat. Their business is failing, their marriage is fracturing, and so is their relationship with Joy, their daughter. During a meeting with the IRS, Evelyn is visited by a version of her husband from a parallel universe. He says that the multiverse — all of the many parallel universes — is under attack from an evil being named Jobu Tupaki, and Evelyn is the only one who can save it. The rest of the film is about Evelyn overcoming her skepticism and discovering her true power (and Waymond's).

Life is not a game

This article was written by Michael Laurence. Previously at Get Rich Slowly, Michael has shared his thoughts on investment risk and what happens when more money makes you miserable.

You hear the phrase “the game of life” all the time.

There are books on Amazon instructing us on how to win at the “game of life”. Hell, Milton Bradley's “The Game of Life” from 1860 — still sold today — was the first popular board game in the United States.

In the Real World, the game of life's rules and criteria for success are vague and never explicitly stated. But we all know what they are. To win, you need:

Learning to dance: How couples can have constructive conversations about money

Today, the Get Rich Slowly summer of books concludes with an excerpt from Cashing Out: Win the Wealth Game by Walking Away from Julien and Kiersten Saunders. Julien and Kiersten are the power couple behind the rich & Regular blog and YouTube channel.

The following excerpt from Cashing Out (published by Portfolio/Penguin) is used with permission. Copyright © 2022 by Rich & Regular LLC. This passage has been edited to be more readable on the web.

The power of non-monetary investments

The Get Rich Slowly summer of books continues! Today's excerpt comes from Jordan Grumet, better known in the FIRE world as Doc G, host of the Earn & Invest Podcast. When he's not talking about money, Jordan is a real-life hospice doc. His new book, Taking Stock, offers lessons from the dying to the living.

The following is from Taking Stock by Jordan Grumet with permission from Ulysses Press. Copyright © 2022 by Jordan Grumet. This passage has been edited to be more readable on the web.

Essentialism and chasing pennies

Sometimes the things I spend my time on leave me shaking my head.

This post from Accidentally Retired on how you don't need multiple streams of income to become wealthy hit me between the eyes a bit.

He also tweeted:

You don't need multiple income streams to become wealthy. You ONLY need to spend less than you earn and invest. That. Is. It.

Walmart Video Game Return Policy

Walmart Video Game Return Policy In 2022 [Updated!]

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Target Return Policy Without Receipt

Target Return Policy Without Receipt In 2022 (Complete Guide)

Target is an American shopping favorite. They offer a variety of merchandise at affordable prices. Customers can return almost all items in a specified timeframe if the receipt was kept.

  • What if I misplace my receipt from purchase and want to return the item? This is what I know about Target’s return policy without the receipt.
  • Target Return Policy Without Receipt In 2022
  • Target will replace your receipt if the alternative proof of purchase can be provided. The packing slip, purchasing credit/debit cards, and return barcode are all acceptable. You can only return up to $150 worth of items without a receipt per year.

  • Keep reading to discover more about Target’s returns policy. Find out how much time it takes to return your items and whether you qualify for any refunds.
  • Does Walmart Deliver To Po Boxes

    Does Walmart Deliver To Po Boxes In 2022? (Secret Hack)

    P.O. Boxes are post office boxes Many people use post office boxes (P.O. Boxes). These are used for mail delivery to those who reside in locations where mail isn’t possible to reach their homes directly.

    However, if this is your only form of receiving mail, you may be wondering if Walmart delivers to PO boxes? Here’s what I discovered.

    Does Walmart Deliver To PO Boxes In 2022?

    Unfortunately, Walmart does not deliver any products to PO box addresses in any state within the United States as of 2022. Walmart.com customers might be able instead to send their orders to their local postal office using USPS General Delivery. This service is only available to those who do not have a permanent address.

    How Long Does Walmart Pharmacy Hold Prescriptions?

    How Long Does Walmart Pharmacy Hold Prescriptions? (2022)

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