Yep! I did it in 2008 and am ready to do it again.
I moved from South Carolina to California for the near-perfect job. Because it was a nonprofit foundation, the economy hit it hard and my job was among the first three jobs eliminated.
By the end of 2010, I will have decided where I'll land next!
I would probably relocate for a new job, depending on where I would be relocated too, and if it's a less than desirable location how good the job is. I've never relocated for a job, though I have relocated when unemployed to a better job market in other states.
I have never understood people that stay in one place. I have moved so often - I moved my stuff halfway across the country, only to move it back 3 months later. I just moved again this week - and as much as I avoided this move - it was back to my hometown so my children could be closer to extended family. Moves are expensive and they get old really quickly, but if they are done for the right reasons, I believe there is a lot to be gained from the experience of life! I've learned a lot with all of my moves - maybe I should start a blog about moving. ;)
As a single person, I would follow my dreams and relocate for the "perfect" job, considering that the "perfect" job is in a safe location. There is nothing tying me down and I believe that facing the challenges of moving would be a great learning experience. Of course, I would miss my family and friends at home but a change like this can only benefit me. Not only would I have the "perfect" job, I also have the opportunity to become a well-rounded person.
However, if the opportunity for the "perfect" job arises when I'm married with kids, then there are a handful of factors to consider. Would the move benefit my family? Will my husband find a job? Would we be able to handle this financially? Will this harm my family in any way? In a situation like this, I cannot be selfish and chase after my dream when there are other lives involved.
I am still in college so no perfect dream job for me here. I don't even know what an okay job is. I think if I were to relocate, I'd want my best friend to come along time. I never go anywhere without her. But, I probably will not relocate. I just don't like to go places. I am comfortable where I am right now.
@apate016 - The service you mention above appears to be a full-service organization that expedites your passport application. As such it's a great service....but one you'll pay for. If you're in a hurry or don't have time in your life to organize getting a passport, it's a great way of outsourcing. Otherwise though, I think there are cheaper ways to do it.
There are many factors that go into a decision such as relocating for your perfect job if you have a husband and children. But doing something I love for a living is extremely important to me and something I've not been able to accomplish yet. My family though would have to agree that the relocation was beneficial for ALL of us otherwise it's a deal breaker. Because if my family isn't happy then I can never be happy even if it were the perfect job!
@Guest - You bring up an interesting point, to which I don't have a full answer. My gut feeling is still that you could spend your hard-earned money on premiums, only to find that when push comes to shove you won't get a pay-out. All you need is to be in a car accident (which I'm gathering is what you are perceiving as the big risk in this scenario), become hospitalized, and die three months PLUS ONE DAY after the accident. Whamo - no money.
That's just one of a myriad of ways that an AD&D policy will let you down - even given the above scenario. If you really think you need $500k of insurance, then it would be prudent to make sure you truly have the coverage.
However if you like the idea of the payout more than actually NEEDING it, then that's another matter, and you can decide if it's worth the cost of the premiums for the potential of financial gain in the event of a disaster.
For the perfect job I would definitely be willing to relocate (with exception of places that would actually endanger me). However, I haven't been in my current post-college job very long, so I haven't developed the long term relationships that might affect that decision later on.
I have moved a few times now for a job, and each time it was a big step up for my career. My last move was not an easy one, as we had lived for close to 5 years in that city and developed a lot of good friends and were close to family. But being where I am now was great for my career and potentially for my family, and I don't regret it.
I just did! After living in one area my whole life I finished grad school and moved for a new job. I think this job is perfect for me right now so I don't think I would relocate again soon.
Note that Target has very recently changed their online coupon system and not all coupons you print are Target coupons. Some are manufacturer's coupons, which can't be stacked. Still nice to have, but not as good as before.
I've had mostly good results -- got my Kraft and Kellogg's rebates no problem. But we did the Sears thing where you are supposed to spend $50 on men's clothing and get $50 Sears cash back. Checked over everything w/ the cashier to make sure it was all good, and Sears denied the rebate. Have been meaning to argue w/ them -- it's $50 after all!
But I've heard a lot of people get wrongly denied by Sears. I won't get sucked into that again, which means we probably won't set foot in their stores again because that was the first thing that brought us in one for years.
I would definitely moved for the perfect job. My husband and I have moved from state to state to state for the past few years. Home is where you make it.
After many years and different positions I have found the grass is not greener just a different shade of brown.
Fortunately I am an optomist and know that this can change!
Anytime, anywhere... I would move at the drop of a hat. I love moving, I love starting over, but I'd have to make sure it was financially sound. Luckily, my husband and I aren't tied down by a house or anything, so we can chase opportunities. I've got a steady job now, but I'm always looking - around the country, around the globe! :)
Would I be willing to move for a dream job? Yes! But I'd have to figure out the pros and cons first. Some things are worth more than a 'dream job'. But getting a 'dream job' and succeeding at it could be priceless.
Since you asked....my current job is already pretty much perfect as far as I'm concerned -- fulfilling projects, great boss, colleagues to teach me new things, flexible environment, amazing staff, and fun opportunities, plus zero commute and a comfortable home...for this, they pay *me*! I'm an optimist, but I'm not sure I could get this lucky again, honestly. A job worth relocating for would need to be somehow even better in a way I could guarantee (or the job I've loved for 10+ years would need to turn sour for a substantial amount of time with no hope of returning to its current awesome status), plus be in a location that would offer substantial improvements for my family...which in the current employment climate seems pretty unlikely for a while!
I agree with those that say that some of the above advises is poor ethics. However, there are some situations, when getting laid-off is more preferable.
Take me for instance. My company has been laying-off people for a while now; meanwhile things been going worse and worse in terms of business, due to a poor performance of owners/principles. The company is still alive only because employees have been working hard, while bosses have been enjoying themselves and acting like nothing happening.
Right now the company has such a large dept that even if we miraculously improve our performance, all profits will go to pay-off the depts. So essentially being laid-off is just a matter of time for me. I lasted longer than others, but there is nobody left less preferable than I am.
The worst thing about this situation is that there is no more enthusiasm about this company; since our bosses let us down so bad. We've been loyal, but right now we lost all respect to our leaders - the wound that will take many years to heal.
BTW, this problem - the lack of respect and trust to our leaders - started long before the crisis. Right now it just got worse as all weaknesses surfaced due to a bad times. I've been with this company long overdue even before 2007.
Unfortunately, there are simply no other jobs in my field whatsoever, as it was one of the few that got affected the most. So, I can't find another job, no matter how hard I try. And I cannot quit - I am a young man who just started his career and just got married and had his first baby, so naturally, there is no money saved.
I am not going to follow most of these advices. I did do some of the mentioned things for a while now even before reading it; not because I intentionally wanted to get myself laid-off, but because I lost my motivation and simply don't care anymore.
So, I am not going to do unethical things that could harm other people, my company and my reputation; but I will wish deep inside that I will be the next.
Thank you for all the great web sites!
Yep! I did it in 2008 and am ready to do it again.
I moved from South Carolina to California for the near-perfect job. Because it was a nonprofit foundation, the economy hit it hard and my job was among the first three jobs eliminated.
By the end of 2010, I will have decided where I'll land next!
I agree that it's probably more important to be happy with where you are (or whom you're with) than happy with your job.
I would probably relocate for a new job, depending on where I would be relocated too, and if it's a less than desirable location how good the job is. I've never relocated for a job, though I have relocated when unemployed to a better job market in other states.
What amount of Omega 3s were you taking daily?
I have never understood people that stay in one place. I have moved so often - I moved my stuff halfway across the country, only to move it back 3 months later. I just moved again this week - and as much as I avoided this move - it was back to my hometown so my children could be closer to extended family. Moves are expensive and they get old really quickly, but if they are done for the right reasons, I believe there is a lot to be gained from the experience of life! I've learned a lot with all of my moves - maybe I should start a blog about moving. ;)
As a single person, I would follow my dreams and relocate for the "perfect" job, considering that the "perfect" job is in a safe location. There is nothing tying me down and I believe that facing the challenges of moving would be a great learning experience. Of course, I would miss my family and friends at home but a change like this can only benefit me. Not only would I have the "perfect" job, I also have the opportunity to become a well-rounded person.
However, if the opportunity for the "perfect" job arises when I'm married with kids, then there are a handful of factors to consider. Would the move benefit my family? Will my husband find a job? Would we be able to handle this financially? Will this harm my family in any way? In a situation like this, I cannot be selfish and chase after my dream when there are other lives involved.
I am still in college so no perfect dream job for me here. I don't even know what an okay job is. I think if I were to relocate, I'd want my best friend to come along time. I never go anywhere without her. But, I probably will not relocate. I just don't like to go places. I am comfortable where I am right now.
In this job market, I would relocate for even a good job. I love Boston, but prospects around here are slim, and cost of living is high.
@apate016 - The service you mention above appears to be a full-service organization that expedites your passport application. As such it's a great service....but one you'll pay for. If you're in a hurry or don't have time in your life to organize getting a passport, it's a great way of outsourcing. Otherwise though, I think there are cheaper ways to do it.
There are many factors that go into a decision such as relocating for your perfect job if you have a husband and children. But doing something I love for a living is extremely important to me and something I've not been able to accomplish yet. My family though would have to agree that the relocation was beneficial for ALL of us otherwise it's a deal breaker. Because if my family isn't happy then I can never be happy even if it were the perfect job!
@Guest - You bring up an interesting point, to which I don't have a full answer. My gut feeling is still that you could spend your hard-earned money on premiums, only to find that when push comes to shove you won't get a pay-out. All you need is to be in a car accident (which I'm gathering is what you are perceiving as the big risk in this scenario), become hospitalized, and die three months PLUS ONE DAY after the accident. Whamo - no money.
That's just one of a myriad of ways that an AD&D policy will let you down - even given the above scenario. If you really think you need $500k of insurance, then it would be prudent to make sure you truly have the coverage.
However if you like the idea of the payout more than actually NEEDING it, then that's another matter, and you can decide if it's worth the cost of the premiums for the potential of financial gain in the event of a disaster.
@Kim - Great idea with the reusable shopping bags! They're always handy....
@Charissa - I love your idea to green up your gifts. It is beautiful, and adds a nice "natural" touch - literally and figuratively!
For the perfect job I would definitely be willing to relocate (with exception of places that would actually endanger me). However, I haven't been in my current post-college job very long, so I haven't developed the long term relationships that might affect that decision later on.
I have moved a few times now for a job, and each time it was a big step up for my career. My last move was not an easy one, as we had lived for close to 5 years in that city and developed a lot of good friends and were close to family. But being where I am now was great for my career and potentially for my family, and I don't regret it.
I just did! After living in one area my whole life I finished grad school and moved for a new job. I think this job is perfect for me right now so I don't think I would relocate again soon.
Note that Target has very recently changed their online coupon system and not all coupons you print are Target coupons. Some are manufacturer's coupons, which can't be stacked. Still nice to have, but not as good as before.
I've had mostly good results -- got my Kraft and Kellogg's rebates no problem. But we did the Sears thing where you are supposed to spend $50 on men's clothing and get $50 Sears cash back. Checked over everything w/ the cashier to make sure it was all good, and Sears denied the rebate. Have been meaning to argue w/ them -- it's $50 after all!
But I've heard a lot of people get wrongly denied by Sears. I won't get sucked into that again, which means we probably won't set foot in their stores again because that was the first thing that brought us in one for years.
I would definitely moved for the perfect job. My husband and I have moved from state to state to state for the past few years. Home is where you make it.
After many years and different positions I have found the grass is not greener just a different shade of brown.
Fortunately I am an optomist and know that this can change!
Anytime, anywhere... I would move at the drop of a hat. I love moving, I love starting over, but I'd have to make sure it was financially sound. Luckily, my husband and I aren't tied down by a house or anything, so we can chase opportunities. I've got a steady job now, but I'm always looking - around the country, around the globe! :)
Would I be willing to move for a dream job? Yes! But I'd have to figure out the pros and cons first. Some things are worth more than a 'dream job'. But getting a 'dream job' and succeeding at it could be priceless.
Since you asked....my current job is already pretty much perfect as far as I'm concerned -- fulfilling projects, great boss, colleagues to teach me new things, flexible environment, amazing staff, and fun opportunities, plus zero commute and a comfortable home...for this, they pay *me*! I'm an optimist, but I'm not sure I could get this lucky again, honestly. A job worth relocating for would need to be somehow even better in a way I could guarantee (or the job I've loved for 10+ years would need to turn sour for a substantial amount of time with no hope of returning to its current awesome status), plus be in a location that would offer substantial improvements for my family...which in the current employment climate seems pretty unlikely for a while!
I sure would in a heart beat...
thanks for the topic, it is timely.
I agree with those that say that some of the above advises is poor ethics. However, there are some situations, when getting laid-off is more preferable.
Take me for instance. My company has been laying-off people for a while now; meanwhile things been going worse and worse in terms of business, due to a poor performance of owners/principles. The company is still alive only because employees have been working hard, while bosses have been enjoying themselves and acting like nothing happening.
Right now the company has such a large dept that even if we miraculously improve our performance, all profits will go to pay-off the depts. So essentially being laid-off is just a matter of time for me. I lasted longer than others, but there is nobody left less preferable than I am.
The worst thing about this situation is that there is no more enthusiasm about this company; since our bosses let us down so bad. We've been loyal, but right now we lost all respect to our leaders - the wound that will take many years to heal.
BTW, this problem - the lack of respect and trust to our leaders - started long before the crisis. Right now it just got worse as all weaknesses surfaced due to a bad times. I've been with this company long overdue even before 2007.
Unfortunately, there are simply no other jobs in my field whatsoever, as it was one of the few that got affected the most. So, I can't find another job, no matter how hard I try. And I cannot quit - I am a young man who just started his career and just got married and had his first baby, so naturally, there is no money saved.
I am not going to follow most of these advices. I did do some of the mentioned things for a while now even before reading it; not because I intentionally wanted to get myself laid-off, but because I lost my motivation and simply don't care anymore.
So, I am not going to do unethical things that could harm other people, my company and my reputation; but I will wish deep inside that I will be the next.