Max writes in with a great question that had an answer that was just a bit too long for the mailbag:
Recently moved to and bought a house in a new town where I hope to stay for several years. There is a Costco and a Sam’s Club here. Never lived close enough to either or had the storage space to make it worthwhile so I’m considering joining one or the other. Sam’s Club is closer and more convenient but Costco isn’t bad either. Trying to figure out if it’s worth it.
I assume Max is trying to decide if he’d save enough money over the course of a year to pay for a year’s membership at either club. So, let’s address that question.
Identity theft is a disturbing crime regardless of your age. The idea that your personal information is now in the hands of people with bad intentions can leave you feeling quite vulnerable.
Now imagine the panic of discovering that your minor child’s personal information has been stolen and is being used fraudulently.
Why Would Anyone Steal a Child’s Identity?
The sad truth is that children can make particularly appealing targets for identity thieves for several reasons.
First, your children’s credit reports are blank slates. There isn’t any negative information on a child’s credit reports that would hamper a thief’s efforts to open fraudulent accounts. On the other hand, if an adult’s identity is stolen, it might not be as useful, depending on the prior credit history and the current credit score.
Debt stinks. We all know this. The sensible move here is to pay off any and all debts as soon as possible, right? Not so fast. In some cases, paying a debt off early doesn't save you all that much money.
As a single parent, going back to school can seem like an impossible and daunting process. You need that higher education to snag a high-paying and solid career, but at the same time, it’s necessary to keep working to pay for your schooling. Throw in that you need to support your family and household throughout the process, and the struggle gets even more difficult.
This push-and-pull conundrum is likely behind the latest findings from the Institute of Women’s Policy Research, which show that while the number of single mothers in college more than doubled between 2000 and 2012, only a very small minority of those students actually graduated.
Recently, I had a face-to-face conversation with a reader (yep, this happens every once in a while; I have a few readers in my local community that I’m not close friends with, but they recognize me and seem to always have some sort of question or topic to bring up in conversation) about the idea of having “everyday meals” for the family, something I mention often as a frugal strategy.
For those unclear, an “everyday meal” is just a meal that Sarah or I can prepare quickly and easily on any given weeknight that our family really likes. You might call it a “staple meal” or a “regular meal.” For us, those meals include things like spaghetti with tomato sauce, scrambled eggs and pancakes, chili, and tuna casserole. Both Sarah and I can whip those things out in a jiffy without even a second thought; the recipes are internalized and efficient.
This reader was pretty pointed: “don’t meals like that get boring?”
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Usher in the new year by planning new experiences! They make your days more interesting, and you'll probably learn something, too!
What new thing do you want to try this year?
It's been two years since I last looked at my overall financial situation to determine whether I have the resources to meet my goals. In those two years, much has changed.
I sold my condo and bought a home in the country. I repurchased Get Rich Slowly. I invested in not one but three other businesses. The stock market has bounced around, I've begun part-time work at the family business, and I've made many other minor adjustments to my daily life.
With all of these fluctuations, I'm naturally left to wonder: Am I still financially independent?
As I've mentioned many times, financial freedom exists along a continuum. For the sake of this article, I'm discussing the fifth stage of FI, the point at which investment income supports standard of living.
What’s inside? Here are the questions answered in today’s reader mailbag, boiled down to summaries of five or fewer words. Click on the number to jump straight down to the question.
1. Prepping for shutdown #1
2. Are piano lessons worth it?
3. Which loan first?
4. Prepping for shutdown #2
5. Investing teenage earnings
6. Tax preparation for Linux
7. Prepping for shutdown #3
8. Renting versus buying
9. Cord cutting in 2019
The holidays may be fun while they last, but the overall financial impact of the season tends to linger in ways that aren’t so cheery. A late study from MagnifyMoney found that the average consumer added $1,054 to their credit cards during last year’s holiday shopping season. It remains to be seen whether this year’s debt totals will be better or worse, but I’m willing to bet plenty of people are starting a new year mired in regret.
The following is a guest post from Kevin at Next Level Finance.
One of the biggest trends in the personal finance world in recent years has been the FIRE (Financial Independence, Retire Early) movement. At its best, it’s a passionate group of individuals seeking independence from traditional employment and a healthy work/life balance. At its worst, it’s a group of bloggers with unrealistic financial projections that are a bit too caught up with finding that perfect Instagram shot while traveling.
If you could turn back time, how much would you be willing to pay for the privilege? A company called Bid On Equipment surveyed 2,000 people to ask how much they would pay to go back in time and experience particular moments.
Most of those snapshots of time were related to music, sports, pop culture, and history. The average prices people were willing to pay for these categories ranged from $639 to $39,334. A few examples:
Once a month (or so), I share a dozen things that have inspired me to greater personal, professional, and financial success in my life. I hope they bring similar success to your life.
1. Thomas Henry Huxley on the things we must do
“The most valuable of all education is the ability to make yourself do the thing you have to do, when it has to be done, whether you like it or not.” – Aldous Huxley
If we want to have any kind of success in life, there are tasks that we don’t particularly want to do that have to be done, often at times when we really don’t want to do them.
Sarah and I both dream of financial independence, but achieving that takes a lot of hard work. It means that there are times when I’d definitely rather do something else for various reasons, but I choose the financially stable path.
Earlier this week, I lamented the fact that my net worth plunged by more than 15% in 2018. Although much of this was due to accounting quirks (buying back this website and remodeling the house, neither of which get tracked by my personal net worth) and larger economic forces (the stock market declined by 6.2% last year), some of the problem is that I've allowed myself to succumb to lifestyle inflation. I've been spending more than I used to.
As a result, I've resolved to make some changes.
I've already trimmed nearly $500 of recurring monthly costs. (This number will increase to nearly $750 once a couple of contracts end.) But that's just the beginning. Over the past month, Kim and I have discussed other steps I can take to cut costs. It's time for me to get back to basics.
The new year tends to bring forth a lot of people pledging resolutions for the coming year and talking about their successes (and occasionally their failures) over the last year.
One particular flavor of this phenomenon that I find interesting is the “challenge,” something that seems to pop up in various ways with various self-improvement strategies at the turn of the year. I’ll hear from a few people that succeeded at a “challenge” the previous year, and from others asking whether a particular “challenge” they’re considering makes sense.
So, what’s a “challenge”? It’s basically any year-long plan for self improvement that requires you to take some simple action on a very regular basis throughout the year, one that accumulates into a big overall success at the end of the year.
Here are a few of the ones I’ve seen that are financially related:
The Instant Pot is truly an amazing kitchen gadget that saves you time when it comes to meal prep. You probably already know that you can make delicious fall-off-the-bone ribs and perfectly cooked hard-boiled eggs with your IP, but did you know you can make other everyday necessities?
Saving money by cooking at home more? Don't suffer with a lousy can opener …
Preparing more meals at home is one of the most straightforward ways to save money. It's also the key to making dinners that suit picky or otherwise restricted diets.
A lot of the common staples for home-prepared meals come in cans. And cans, like any packaging, need to be opened.
When did can openers begin to suck?
Growing up, my parents cooked nearly all of our meals. Restaurants – even McDonald's – were reserved for special occasions.
They had a Rival (I think) electric can opener that just wouldn't quit. Year after year, can after can, it just kept opening them. Like a can opener should, honestly.
Marilyn writes in:
If I go home after work and cook dinner, I have to spend half an hour in the kitchen by myself cooking and fifteen minutes after the meal cleaning up. If I pick up food after work, I can eat immediately with my family and there’s no cleanup and then I get 45 minutes more time with my family. That’s more than worth the few bucks I might save by cooking myself.
The gist of the rest of Marilyn’s email was that frugality tips centered around home food preparation weren’t very useful to her at all.
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This week's topic: Having a Financially Successful 2019!
Across the web, I see other financial bloggers sharing their year-end financial summaries. Some folks had good years. Financial Samurai's net worth increased by 6.5% in 2018. Others had mediocre years. Fritz at The Retirement Manifesto saw his net worth decline by 2.1% thanks to a volatile stock market.
Me? Well, I'm embarrassed to share how my year went financially. It sucked. No, seriously. It was terrible.
My net worth declined by 15.2% in 2018 — nearly $250,000!
Here's a graph of the monthly changes to my net worth during the past two years:
The median American household income is about $60,000. Almost eight in 10 American households are living paycheck to paycheck, struggling to just get by. The majority of American workers believe they will always be in debt. The majority of Americans save less than $100 each month. It’s a bleak picture out there, folks.
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