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Potential needs versus actual needs: Re-writing my financial blueprint

Last week, I was a guest on the new Fire Below Zero podcast. The interview was fun. (It'll probably be several weeks before the episode airs, though.)

Toward the end of our conversation, the hosts asked a question that my mind keeps returning to: “What's something you spend money on that other people might question?”

At the time, I had two answers:

What You Can Control

My two oldest children have reached the age where they consistently bring home a bag full of school work. Most evenings, they have homework in two or three different subjects.

My oldest child is pretty efficient with his homework. His view is that if he just gets it done, then he can go do something fun without any worries. Mom and Dad aren’t going to bug him about homework tonight and his teachers won’t bug him about it tomorrow. All of that goes away if he just gets down to business.

In contrast, my middle child is a bit more resistant to homework. She doesn’t think it’s fair that she’s still doing homework when her older brother is already done and her younger brother doesn’t even have any.

Last night, we had a bit of a heart to heart talk about homework and what’s “fair.” We spent a lot of time looking at the homework situation from the lens of what she can’t control and what she can control.

Three Ways to Remove a Charge-Off From Your Credit Report

If you fall far enough behind on your bills and eventually default, you may start seeing or hearing the term “charge-off.” The term charge-off can be a little misleading, and some people even believe that a charged-off debt is one that is no longer owed. Yet, despite many hopeful wishes to the contrary, that is not the case whatsoever.

Charge-off is simply an accounting term that signifies that a creditor has written off your debt for tax purposes. The debt, however, is still very much owed, and the creditor may continue collection efforts on the account. Often, though not always, charged-off debts are turned over to third-party collection agencies and even collection attorneys.

Charged-off debts can also be reported to the credit reporting agencies. In fact, they have been a part of consumer credit reports for decades. As you can imagine, charge-offs are considered to be negative credit events, and they can lead to lower credit scores.

How I've Scored Free Travel for 5 Years Straight

It's been at least five years since I've paid for airfare or hotels out of pocket, as I always use reward points and miles instead. And far from being a homebody, I travel extensively in connection with my freelance work, and for vacations with my family.

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This week's topic: Interviewing!

Saving for Tomorrow vs. Living for Today

One of the hardest experiences of moving toward middle age is that I have to watch my parents enter old age. Those two people have been the absolute rocks in my life for as long as I can remember. I remember them clearly at the most active and vibrant times in their lives, when they seemed infinitely strong and their energy seemed infinitely boundless. Now they’re growing old together and while they still get around and still travel and still do a lot of things, they don’t get around as fast as they once did and, eventually, they won’t be around any more. Words can’t describe how much I’ll miss them when they’re gone.

Asking Someone for a Favor? Five Tips to Write a Better Email Request

Like many liberal arts majors, I didn’t waltz right into a good career when I graduated from college. The challenges of a real-world job hunt hit like a tidal wave, and I scrambled to find a foothold.

It was during this time that I learned how important it is to be able to write a good email asking someone for a favor. I needed help, but I needed to ask for it in ways that weren’t annoying, desperate, or rude.

I’m now much further along in my career, but I still periodically find myself asking things of my mentors, friends, former co-workers, and even complete strangers. Over the years, I’ve learned a lot about how to write emails in a way that gets a positive response.

8 Things You Need to Know About Debt Management Plans

If you're in debt and struggling to dig your way out, you've probably spent a lot of time trying to come up with a fix. Maybe you transferred your balance to a balance transfer card to score zero interest, and wound up racking up even more debt.

Keeping Food Spending Low When You Live in a Food Desert

Last week, I published an article entitled How to Find – and Get the Most Value Out of – Your Local Discount Grocer that tackles head-on one of the tougher frugality challenges we all face: how does a person find the cheapest grocery store in their area and, once they do, how do they really get the most value out of it?

Now in Stock, Sticker Shock: How a Trade War Could Impact Your Budget

As tariff tiffs ratchet up between the United States and its key trading partners, especially China, economists are warning of the potential for a full-blown trade war and global economic crisis — and everyone from American manufacturers to farmers are increasingly on edge about what the future holds. But consumers ought to worry, too.

Ask the Readers: How Will You Prep Your Home for Winter?

Editor's Note: Congratulations to Mary, sweepermom, and Donna for winning this week's contest!

Winter is coming!

How to Do a Reconnaissance Trip Before Retiring Overseas

Making the decision to retire abroad is a huge step for anyone, even if you're a seasoned world traveler. Perhaps you've spent significant periods of your life overseas exploring various locations, but making the move to another country is entirely different.

Questions About Penny Stocks, College Planners, Mattresses, and More!

What’s inside? Here are the questions answered in today’s reader mailbag, boiled down to summaries of five or fewer words. Click on the number to jump straight down to the question.
1. Mother using my credit card
2. College planner a worthwhile investment?
3. 401(k) contribution question
4. Quietly seeking a new job
5. Who buys penny stocks?
6. Spend money too easily
7. Mail order mattress advice
8. New city, huge raise

I’m a Financial Planner. Here’s How I Invest My Own Money.

Even if you have a solid understanding of the general concepts around investing, choosing specific investments can be a struggle.

In some cases there are literally thousands of choices with an almost limitless amount of information available about each one. How are you supposed to sort through all of that information and pick the right mix of investments for your personal goals?

Today I’d like to share my personal process for doing just that. I’m going to explain both my overall investment plan and the specific investments I’ve chosen to implement it.

To be clear, this is not a set of recommendations. Your personal investment decisions should reflect your personal goals, needs, and preferences. The right portfolio for me is not necessarily the right one for you.

My goal is simply to detail my personal thought process with the hope that it helps you think through your own decisions and make better choices.

How a Family of 4 Can Visit Hawaii for $1,000 or Less

Hawaii is a bucket list destination for many families, and for good reason. The islands that make up Hawaii boast spectacular mountain landscapes, unbeatable beaches, tropical and lush greenery, and a culture all their own.

The Ultimate Guide to Eggs: Nature’s Frugal, Flexible Protein

I am an egg superfan. They’re cheap, easy to cook, and full of protein. I used to find eggs on sale and then buy 96 at a time. I would joke with the cashiers that I was making the world’s biggest omelet, but then one day I had to stop after learning that someone once actually made an omelet that weighed over 12,000 pounds.

Even if you love eggs like me, you still might have some outstanding questions: What do the different egg grades and types really mean? If I buy eggs in bulk, how long will they last? How healthy are they? And what are some simple egg-based recipes I can use when I get bored of making them over-easy?

I decided to do a deep dive into all things egg in order to find out.

The Different Egg Grades and Colors

While many of us just grab whatever carton is on sale, it’s still good to understand the grading system and how it works.

Finding Spiritual Meaning in Good Personal Finance Practices

Personal finance can often feel like a very self-centered notion. It involves looking at one’s own financial state and figuring out how to maximize that state, almost within a bubble. Most of the practices intended to improve one’s financial state – frugality, better money management, debt reduction and elimination, better career choices – are pretty individualistic, too.

Because of that individual focus, personal finance can often feel disconnected from the broader world without any meaning beyond simply accumulating wealth. In other words, personal finance often has no spiritual component and, for many, that can make good personal finance practice something that’s very hard to integrate into their lives.

Is Being Comfortable a Positive Thing?

Sarah and I live what I would call a comfortable life. It’s far from perfect – there are lots of stresses floating around – but it’s comfortable. We aren’t in any immediate danger of any kind of financial problems. We have a house that’s plenty big and we have plenty of clothes and possessions. We never lack for the food we want to eat. On the whole, it’s comfortable.

The thing is, many people say that being comfortable is a bad thing. This article from Pick the Brain sums up some of the reasons:

You stop pushing
You stop thinking
You lose motivation
You lose sight of your goals

5 Smart Ways to Reduce Your Credit Card Interest

If you've been trying to get out of credit card debt, you've probably heard about 0% APR credit cards that offer balance transfers.