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Valentine’s Day Cheapskate Contest

It’s almost that time. With all that pink and red displayed in every store and jewelry commercials on heavy rotation on every channel, anyone with a significant other can feel their wallets cringing in fear at the approach of Valentine’s Day. So what is it this year? Chocolates? Flowers? A teddy bear with a heart? [...]

Valentine’s Day Cheapskate Contest from personal finance blog Bargaineering.com.

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5 Expensive Products That Will Actually Save You Money

The old saying "you have to speculate to accumulate" does not just apply to those in the investment industries. If you're spending a little more to get a return on your initial outlay, that works in all aspects of life; and the purchases you make are equally applicable. (See also: 15 Items to Pay More For)

Now, the word expensive is relative. What's costly for one person is peanuts to another. So in this article, expensive refers to the competitive products in the marketplace. Why should you shell out your hard earned money on a brand or product that has a much higher price tag than those in the same category?

On a time crunch? Squeeze more out of your day

This article is by staff writer Lisa Aberle.

When I (or others) want to improve our financial situations, most excuses involve time. I am too busy to take on another job. I don’t have time to start that business I’ve wanted to start for the last three years. I wish I could really get my financial ducks in a row, but I feel like I’m already using every spare minute of my days.

Six Figure Interviews 14

Here's the latest in my series of six figure interviews, discussions with everyday people who have grown their incomes to at least $100,000 annually.

My questions are in bold italics and their responses follow in black.

Let's get started...

Tell us a bit about yourself (age, marital status, kids, where you live, etc.)

I am 43 years old, happily married and have 5 children (elementary to college). My wife has been a stay at home mom since our first child was 18 months old. We live in the Intermountain West.
 
What do you do for a living?

I’m a financial controller for a $100 million dollar division at a software company.
 
How much do you earn annually?

$170,000

How does this amount break down (salary, bonuses, etc.)?

Financial to dos before you say “I do”

Money is a sensitive topic — even between loved ones. When my husband and I got married, money was the last thing on our mind. The only knowledge we had of each other’s finances was that neither of us had any debt, both of us had some savings. My husband didn’t even know my salary. Knowing each other’s financial makeup better would not have changed our decision to marry but it would have made our newlywed days a lot less stressful. Money was the contributing factor in a lot of our early arguments. And it took us a good two years before we decided to sit down calmly and talk about money. Given that money is cited as one of the top contributing factors in divorce, it is essential that couples have conversations before marriage to establish where each of them stands financially. Here are a few questions to ask before you say “I do.”

Finding Your Bliss Station

Our life has become so economic and practical in its orientation that, as you get older, the claims of the moment upon you are so great, you hardly know where [...] you are, or what it is you intended. You are always doing something that is required of you. Where is your bliss station? You have to try to find it. Get a phonograph and put on the music that you really love, even if it’s corny music that nobody else respects. – Joseph Campbell

I love playing tabletop games. There is nothing that makes me happier than sitting around a table with friends new and old, playing a game together. The puzzle of the game makes my brain cells work a little, but the social interaction with the people around the table makes it sublime. For me, that’s one of my “bliss stations.” It really brings me joy.

The Costs – and Rewards – of Having Children

Erika writes:

“My husband and I are weighing the pros and cons of having a baby. We have seen articles that estimate that the cost of raising a child from birth to adulthood is around $250,000 which seems incredible. If you have three kids that would mean you’re putting up $750,000 just to raise them, which makes us wonder how you’re not bankrupt.“

While I can’t yet comment on what the financial experience of raising older children is like, I can certainly comment on what it’s like to raise three younger children. Right now, our children are aged eight, six, and three years old. We’ve gone through the infant and toddler phases with all of them.

Review of Alan Corey’s The Subversive Job Search

A bit ago Alan Corey was kind enough to send me a copy of his newest book, The Subversive Job Search: How to Overcome a Lousy Job, Sluggish Economy, and Useless Degree to Create a Six-Figure Career.  (Now, that’s a subtitle!)  I was glad to receive it because I enjoyed his first book, A Million Bucks by 30.

The one thing I noticed about this book is that he seemed so much happier in his author photo on this book than he did on the first one.  He agreed, and credited it to having a little bit more notice of needing one on the second book.  I guess that the first one, um, caught him unawares.

Starting over is painful

The Risk and Reward of Generics, Store Brands, and “Best Buys”

When Sarah and I were really straining to get our finances under control, we went through a phase where we bought the cheapest versions of every food and common household product. We bought cheap coffee, cheap cereal, cheap dishwashing detergent – you name it.

As we used this stuff, we found that most of it did a very nice job. In most cases, we couldn’t notice a difference between the name brand version we used to buy and the inexpensive version we were now using.

Sometimes, though, the difference was disastrous.

I’ve told this story before on The Simple Dollar, but one of the disasters we faced came in the form of garbage bags.

Before the switch, we had purchased premium-level garbage bags and had never had a single problem with them. We were quite used to filling up our trash can to the brim, then easily pulling out the sack and taking it to the dumpster.

Ten Pieces of Inspiration #164

Each week, I highlight ten things each week that inspired me to greater financial, personal, and professional success. Hopefully, they will inspire you as well.

1. Harold Whitman on being alive

“Don’t ask yourself what the world needs; ask yourself what makes you come alive. And then go and do that. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.” ― Harold Whitman

Every time I’ve had a great life experience, it’s almost always involved someone who has “come alive” with passion for something they’re doing or involved with. It might be hard to make a living with passion, but it makes the world go around.

2. Bruce Springsteen – Thunder Road

Bargains and availability: just-in-time grocery shopping

We’ve saved a bit of money on some of our staple grocery items by not buying them in the store.  Services like Amazon’s Subscribe and Save and Walmart’s Home Free™ Shipping let us get a number of items we use regularly at quite a bit of savings.

The problem with bargains

Buying from here works great … except when it doesn’t.  Apparently we’re not the only ones that have found these great deals, and sometimes there isn’t enough deal for everyone who wants one.  The problem with bargains is that they don’t remain secret for long.

Avoiding the Comfort Zone

It is easy to become comfortable and complacent.

You get a job. You work there for a few years. You get to know the people there and the routine. You earn a few perks for being there for a while, such as a bit of additional vacation. It’s easy to just settle in and ride.

You wake up to your financial situation. You make a bunch of moves to pay down debt and establish some new routines that aren’t as costly. Eventually, you start to simply enjoy the lower bills and it all seems to come easily. You just settle in and ride.

Settling in is the easy thing to do. Usually, it’s the path of least resistance, so unless you’re consciously making other choices, you’ll probably wind up doing just that.

The problem is that “settling in and riding” is more dangerous than you think. Settling in assumes that the thing that comes easy today will last forever.

Living on Last Month’s Income

Will writes in:

“During the winter Steam sale I picked up You Need a Budget because I remembered you recommending it a few times. I’ve started using it and it’s pretty good, but I wanted to ask you about their four rules of cash flow especially the one about living on last month’s income. One, is that really necessary, and two, how do you get to that point?“

I actually wrote about the “four rules of cash flow” about a year ago. Here they are again, for those who missed it:

Rule 1: GIVE EVERY DOLLAR A JOB.
Rule 2: SAVE FOR A RAINY DAY.
Rule 3: ROLL WITH THE PUNCHES.
Rule 4: LEARN TO LIVE ON LAST MONTH’S INCOME.

Will’s questions center on the last rule – learn to live on last month’s income.

Your Internet passwords stink, but it’s not (completely) your fault

This post comes from Sean T. Johnston at our partner site Zing.

If you’re like most Americans, you probably don’t pay much attention to creating impenetrable passwords for your online accounts. According to Splashdata, an online password provider, the list of the top online passwords are just terrible from a security standpoint.

The good news is that “password” is no longer the number one password online (it’s now number two!). The bad news is that “123456” took the top spot; “abc123” and “111111” were also among the top 10.

C’mon people, really? Your financial information, emails and personal data are online, and the only thing protecting your information from people with nefarious intentions is “123456”?

5 Best Amazon Deals for Friday 02/07

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‘Multilevel marketing’ schemes like Herbalife, Amway and Juice Plus are bullshit and here’s why

You probably know someone (or multiple people if you’re particularly unlucky) who has tried to sell you so-called “multilevel marketing” products such as Herbalife, Amway, Juice Plus, Avon, Mona Vie, Vemma or Arbonne. If you’re even more unlucky, they’ve tried to recruit you to sell the product, too, waxing poetic about the amazing quality of [...]

‘Multilevel marketing’ schemes like Herbalife, Amway and Juice Plus are bullshit and here’s why from personal finance blog Bargaineering.com.

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13 Things Successful People Do Every Morning

While there are many factors that influence a person's success, those who have discussed their preferred habits or have documented their own tricks of the trade seem to have several common denominators when it comes to reaching their goals. Many of these commonalities involve the morning routine. (See also: Habits of the Financially Successful)

Here are 13 things that successful people do every morning.

Ask the Readers: What do you do when someone constantly hits you up for money?

A few years ago, I wrote about how to lend money to friends without letting it ruin the friendship. To quickly recap, a friend needed help paying the rent. She had never asked me for money in all the years we’d been friends, so I knew she had to be in a pretty desperate situation. In fact, she was even on medical leave and tried to return to work early, but her doctor (and therefore her employer) refused to sign off on it.

Best Money Tips: Legal Sources of Non-Taxable Income

Welcome to Wise Bread's Best Money Tips Roundup! Today we found some awesome articles on legal sources of non-taxable income, the happiest jobs around, and how to score a deal without leaving a store's website.

Top 5 Articles

15 Surprisingly Legal Sources of Non-Taxable Income — Gifts up to $13,000 and contributions to a health savings account are legal sources of non-taxable income. [The Wisdom Journal]

15 of the Happiest Jobs Around — Did you know realtors and marketing consultants have some of the happiest jobs around? [PopSugar Smart Living]

10 Things You're Paying Too Much for When You Travel (and How to Pay Less)

You may eagerly anticipate a getaway or a weeklong escape, but traveling isn't always a bargain. The cost of airfare, hotels, transportation, food, and entertainment can hit your pocket hard. And if you don't plan well, you can easily overspend in these areas. (See also: Get Your Travel Rewards on the Ground)

Here's a look at 10 things you're probably paying too much for when traveling, plus tips on how to pay less.