You share a home and a bed, but when it comes to your bank account, do you feel like your spouse is holding back? Living with a spouse who is too controlling over money can make you feel trapped rather than an equal partner in the marriage.
It doesn't have to be this way.
HO HO HO!
Just like that, the holiday season is upon us!
This year, I intend to do most of my Christmas shopping during a three-week tour of Europe with my cousins. We're deliberately visiting as many Christmas markets as possible, so I hope to find a variety of interesting and unusual gifts for my family and friends. (They need to be small, though. I don't have much space to carry things home.)
While I'm buying new (and possibly expensive) gifts this year, that's not normally my style. I'm a fan of keeping Christmas frugal.
Being a frugal shopper doesn't mean you can't give thoughtful gifts though. In fact, my experience has shown that it's often more fun and rewarding to impose limits on gift-giving. These limits breed creativity and inspiration. “Christmas on a budget” doesn't have to mean “Christmas without fun”.
Personal finance success is simple. Personal finance success is hard. Those two things don’t contradict each other in the slightest.
Simple
The things that you need to do to be successful when it comes to finances are really simple.
Spend less than you earn. You can do that by either cutting back on your spending or figuring out a way to earn more money. You do this because eventually you won’t be able to or really won’t want to work any more and the leftover money is for that point in the future.
If you and your spouse or partner both have access to a 401(k) or other employer retirement plan, you might be wondering how you should divvy up your contributions between the two of them.
This can be an especially difficult and emotionally-laden question if one of those 401(k)s is measurably better than the other, in which case it may make rational sense to contribute more money to that 401(k) even if it would leave the other spouse or partner with less money saved for retirement.
So, what should you do in that situation? Should you split your contributions evenly, even if it means putting money into a bad 401(k)? Or should you contribute more to the better 401(k) even if it means that one of you will have more money than the other?
Let’s break it down.
Editor's Note: Congratulations to Lynda, Jillian, and Karen for winning this week's contest!
There are a few classic flavors that is often associated with the holidays, like pumpkin spice, eggnog, peppermint, and gingerbread.
What is your favorite holiday flavor?
The office supply section of the local pharmacy has a nasty habit of extracting money from my wallet.
It's bad enough when debt collectors start calling you, but what if they start hounding your family members, too?
What’s inside? Here are the questions answered in today’s reader mailbag, boiled down to summaries of five or fewer words. Click on the number to jump straight down to the question.
1. Stock market dropping!
2. IRA maximum income question?
3. Simple small business budgeting software
4. Financial coaching services
5. Smartly using a small windfall
6. Improving communication skills at work
7. Environmental benefit of reusable bottles
8. How to find used guitars?
The holidays can be pretty fraught, thanks to tons of familial and social pressure to create a picture-perfect setting (looking at you, Pinterest) plus a relentless onslaught of advertising.
The pressures are both complicated and formidable, which is why otherwise reasonable people lose their dang minds every November and December. We’re so anxious to do things the right way – the right décor, the right gifts, the right entertaining – that we can lose sight of our everyday values.
Ever taken on too many projects and wound up stressed and exhausted by Dec. 24? Or overbought wildly and then dreaded the arrival of the January credit card bills?
You’re not a bad person. You’re just human. Understanding what you’re up against will help you avoid seasonal mistakes that can wreck your budget and your peace of mind.
The following is a guest post from Mike at Miked Up Blog.
I had an email stop me completely in my tracks last week… I probably receive over 100 emails a day and this is the first one I can remember that made me stop what I was doing, re-read the text twice, and then take a deep breath. The emails reason for being? "After a search of the dark web, we found your email address and [other personal information] listed in multiple locations. Your person data are at risk. You should act quickly…” (that’s paraphrased)
Over the last year or two, one of the sub-themes on The Simple Dollar has been to look at different schools of philosophy and see what they can tell us about living a successful modern life, financially, personally, and otherwise. We’ve already discussed epicureanism and stoicism, and today I want to move onto the teachings of Aristotle and his concept of “eudaemonia.”
I met a GRS reader named T.J. for happy hour last week. As we sipped our beer, we chatted about money and videogames and our personal struggles with ADHD. We also discovered we have a shared love for audiobooks.
T.J. listens to audiobooks as he drives from client to client. I used to consume audiobooks during my commute to work at the box factory. In recent years, I've found that audiobooks are an effective way to cope with my insomnia. No joke: Every night — all night — I listen to audiobooks. (Plus, I still like to listen to them during long drives.)
Here's a shocking stat: I listen to nearly 3000 hours of audiobooks every year. (As a point of reference, if you work a full-time job, you probably work about 2000 hours each year.)
One of my core principles of personal finance is “if you’re doing something by yourself, do it as cheap as possible.” When I’m alone and not worried about anyone else’s needs or concerns, I go super cheap on almost everything. There’s no real reason to “treat” myself because I’ll probably do some form of that the next time I’m spending time with others. I’m usually just fueling up and preparing for the next thing on my calendar.
So, for clarity’s sake, most days I eat breakfast by myself and many days I eat lunch by myself. My children are in school and my wife is at work and I work from home, so those meals are definitely solo. About once a month, a confluence of schedules will result in me eating supper solo, too, and there’s usually a week during the year where my wife visits her sisters and my children visit the grandparents and I’m going solo, too.
As the holiday season gets into full swing, so too do the credit card promotions from retail stores far and wide.
This is prime season for enticing shoppers to sign onto the dotted line for cards that offer a discount on your first purchase or a special 0% introductory APR — which to many cash-strapped consumers can sound like an ideal way to finance a holiday extravaganza.
The reality of these deferred-interest retail credit cards however, is that they may not be as helpful as they sound at first blush. In fact, in many cases, signing on for one can cost far more than expected if you’re not clear on how the deferred interest proposition works.
The açt of giving thanks isn’t something that comes natural for most of us. Most of the people reading this article have a life that’s absolutely chock full of things to be thankful for, and yet our minds come back to the negatives, the regrets, the things that we wish could be better rather than the things that are great.
It is really easy to overlook all of those things in our lives that really are great in an effort to seek out more and more and more.
Let today be a call to be thankful for the many, many things that we have in our life that we often take for granted, so that we might see the abundance we already have and be a little less driven to excess and perhaps use the gifts we have to secure our own prosperity and gifts instead.
I absolutely love hot sauce.
I put hot sauce on everything. If it’s savory and I have some hot sauce around, I’ll put hot sauce on it. Pizza. Burritos. Scrambled eggs. Grilled vegetables. Beans and rice. All of it gets hot sauce.
Even dishes where you wouldn’t expect hot sauce are dishes where you’ll often find me doling out the hot sauce. I have a savory oatmeal recipe that I often make for myself in the mornings that I consistently add hot sauce to (it’s not sweet at all – much different than the pre-sweetened oatmeal packets from the store).
If you have an ongoing health condition that requires prescription medication, you're well aware of how expensive it can be. Rising medication costs have increasingly hurt consumers' wallets — and their health.
I’ve had a draft of this post in various forms floating around for years and I felt that right now, on the cusp of Thanksgiving, when many families are getting together to celebrate a meal and a day together, it might be a good moment to write about the ins and outs of aging parents. I hope that some of this might spur healthy conversations in your family over the next few days.
If you're getting ready to sell your home, or have already put it on the market, it can be tempting to gloss over a few of the negatives.
Editor's Note: Congratulations to Kelly, Deanne, and Sandie for winning this week's contest!
Thanksgiving is a time for food and family, and it's also a great time to reflect on the good things in your life — the things you're thankful for.
What are you thankful for?
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