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How Keeping Up With the Joneses Can Actually Save You Money

When I was a new mom, I attended a parenting group where the father next to me mentioned putting aside $130 per month in his daughter's 529 college savings account.

Questions About Toothbrushes, 529 Transfers, Bullet Journals, Roth 403(b)s, Credit Card Destruction, and More!

What’s inside? Here are the questions answered in today’s reader mailbag, boiled down to summaries of five or fewer words. Click on the number to jump straight down to the question.
1. Roth 403(b) versus Roth IRA
2. 529 funds transfer and taxes
3. $40 a week for food?
4. Contents of “portable office”?
5. Retirement portfolio diversity
6. Bullet journaling
7. Debt versus retirement savings
8. Cheapest way to cook turkey?

The Firewall Principle, and Why Diversification Isn’t Just for Investing

My personal portfolio is predicated on the idea of building “firewalls” between my assets.

I’m referring to the original meaning of the word firewall — an actual wall constructed, often between buildings, to prevent the spread of fire. I invest in multiple uncorrelated assets so that if a “fire” breaks out (e.g., the stock market tanks), the losses won’t spread throughout my whole portfolio. Because I’m committed to financial diversification, it would take an unprecedented downturn of all asset classes simultaneously to completely derail my investments.

I like this idea of firewalls so much that I’ve been thinking about how I can be better at using the same principles in other aspects of my life.

7 Life Skills You Can Learn for Free

We don't learn everything in school. There are many people who might have an impressive degree and can do calculus, but when it comes to public speaking or cooking a tasty meal, they don't know where to begin.

Trying to Buy a House When Prices Are High: Here’s What You Should Do

First-time homebuyers who found it difficult to enter the housing market a year ago due to fast-rising prices are now getting squeezed from a second direction, as rising interest rates erode their purchasing power.

An analysis by national brokerage Redfin found that a homebuyer with a budget of $2,500 a month and a 20% down payment saved up could afford to spend as much as $473,750 on a home at the beginning of 2018, when 30-year mortgage rates were averaging around 4%. With mortgage rates now closer to 5%, that same buyer can only pay up to $444,000 at the most—a loss of almost $30,000 in purchasing power.

The majority of home buyers need a mortgage, so that drop in their financial firepower has led to a market-wide weakening in home prices this season, a morsel of good news for buyers.

J.D. on the Adulting podcast: Learn to control what you can control

While tidying up and decommissioning my old Money Boss website, we found a couple of treasures that deserve to be shared here at Get Rich Slowly. This is one of them.

A couple of years ago, I was a guest on the excellent Adulting podcast. Although targeted specifically at young adults, this show has great info for everyone who feels like they need help being a grown-up. (I fall into that category, and I'm nearly fifty!)

In this episode, I spoke with hosts Miranda Marquit and Harlan Landes about taking charge of your life, choosing to control what you can control.

Inspiration from Anaïs Nin, Dave Grohl, Tom Bodett, and More!

Once a month (or so), I share a dozen things that have inspired me to greater personal, professional, and financial success in my life. I hope they bring similar success to your life.

1. Anaïs Nin on courage

“Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage.” – Anaïs Nin

Think about it. You’re at a social event where you don’t know many people. Your tendency is to be quiet and just listen, but it’s pretty hard to build friendships that way. On the other hand, speaking up takes courage. Do you have the courage to expand your horizons.

In 2008, I quit my rather steady job to be a full time writer. That took a ton of courage. It also opened up life opportunities I didn’t even know existed.

How to Use the ‘Reminders’ App to Help Your Financial State

While a smartphone might be a very powerful avenue of distraction and temptation, it also offers a number of very powerful tools for getting your financial life straightened out and keeping you focused in surprisingly effective ways.

One of my favorite simple tools for doing this is the Reminders app that’s part of iOS on all newer iPhones. (There’s a very similar app available for Android phones called Google Now.)

Reminders is just a very simple to-do list app that’s heavily integrated into the iOS notifications system, meaning that it’s incredibly effective at alerting you of things you need to remember at key moments. It’s one of those tools that, when you start thinking about clever things you can do with it, good ideas just pop up all over.

The Start of the Month

At the start of each month – typically on the evening of the last day of the previous month or in the morning of the first day of the new month – I spend a couple of hours doing a monthly review of my life and my financial situation. I look back at the month just past, tie off any loose ends, and look ahead at the coming month and consider what it will hold.

Doing this kind of review is a pretty routine thing for me. I set aside time each week (about an hour on Sunday mornings) to do a similar weekly review and figure out major tasks for the coming week, and once a quarter I do a quarterly review where I set bigger goals. A monthly review sits somewhere in the middle, but it’s useful in its own way, which you’ll see shortly.

Loan Shopping? Here’s How Multiple Inquiries Impact Your Credit Score

Shopping around to make sure you find the best deal on a loan is financially smart. Getting the best interest rate and terms possible, especially on a mortgage, could save you thousands or even tens of thousands of dollars over the life of a large loan. And we can thank the internet for allowing us access to hundreds of lenders where we can kick their tires and explore what kinds of deals we can get.

That being said, it’s best to keep your interest rate shopping limited to a short window of time if your credit reports are being pulled as part of the process. There’s a chance that rate shopping could have a negative impact on your credit scores if you’re haphazard about it.

8 Professional Ways to Make Friends at Work

When you're a kid, making friends is one of the easiest things you can do. Walk up to someone roughly the same height, say "Hey, wanna be best friends?" and congratulate yourself on another buddy in the bag.

Time is more valuable than money

It's a GRS tradition! Each year on Halloween, I publish a story about planning for death. Usually these are general articles about estate planning. This year's story is personal.

When my best friend died in 2009, one of my biggest regrets was that I hadn't made time to travel with him.

Sparky had previously asked me to join him on trips to Burning Man (in 1996) and southeast Asia (in 1998) and Mexico (in 2003). I'd declined each invitation, in part because I was deep in debt but also because I thought there'd be plenty of time to do that sort of thing in the future.

Turns out, there wasn't plenty of time to do that sort of thing in the future.

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This week's topic: Millennials and Money!

You Don’t Need to Buy Something to Change Yourself

At various points in my life, I’ve been really into the idea of getting myself into shape. I bought gym memberships. I bought exercise equipment. I bought workout videos. I bought exercise clothes.

In the end, the single most successful thing I’ve ever done in terms of personal fitness is to go on walks, to stretch, and to do some bodyweight exercises, like holding my body in a plank position or doing some squats.

At various points in my life, I’ve been really into studying the bible as a way to figure out my spiritual yearnings. I bought bible translations. I bought study guides. I bought notebooks. I bought pens. I bought highlighters.

In the end, the single most successful thing I’ve ever done in terms of bible study is to simply sit down and read a few chapters each day and share my thoughts on them in a private social media group.

Do You Need Pet Insurance? Here’s How to Decide

Most people who love their pets go the extra mile to make sure they receive the highest quality of care possible. This includes taking the time to get them to the veterinarian’s office for wellness checkups and shots, making sure they have nutritious food and fresh water, and providing them with a cozy place to sleep. None of these basics are cheap, but most animal-lovers believe their furry friend is well worth the cost.

Unfortunately, the price tag for keeping a pet can surge dramatically if your pet becomes ill or is diagnosed with a chronic condition. And, many times, these costs can creep up with little or no warning, meaning you have no time to prepare your finances for the expense. The American Veterinary Medical Foundation also notes that, as veterinary medicine becomes more technologically advanced, costs can and will increase even more.

6 Self-Care Rituals to Try When You Find Out You're Pregnant

Congratulations, you're pregnant! Even if this is exactly what you wanted, finding out you're pregnant can be stressful. After all, a new baby changes your life forever. You may need to rearrange your home, move, buy a new vehicle, and more.

Should you pay off your mortgage early?

My friend Amy recently wrote with an interesting dilemma. “Should I pay off my mortgage early?” she wonders.

Amy has a high-paying job and has managed to save enough that she could be completely debt-free if she wanted to. And she kind of wants to! But is this the best choice? She's aware that this is a nice problem to have — but it's still a bit of a muddle. She'd like some guidance.

Here's an abridged version of her email:

I'm wondering if you have any advice for me related to paying off a mortgage vs. keeping it for tax purposes.

Here’s the basic rundown: I have 22 years and $103,000 left on a 30-year fixed-rate mortgage at 3.95%. My monthly payment is $668 per month. I will pay about $48000 in interest this year. I pay both my taxes and insurance out of pocket annually.

When Is It Time to Spend More on Something?

I’ve long been an advocate for getting the most value for your dollar. I am very price conscious when I shop for most things. I constantly joke with my kids about how I’m a “store brand connoisseur,” and when they go to the store with me, they know I’m going to inevitably swap their breakfast cereal choice for the store brand version and that half of our cart will have store brand labels on it. I buy lots of small appliances and sporting goods used. I’m just generally very careful about how I spend my money.

However, I don’t go for the cheapest version of everything that I buy. There are many things for which I don’t buy the cheapest version or go the cheapest route.

For me, this isn’t a case-by-case basis situation. There are a handful of principles that guide me toward choosing a higher quality item than the minimal cost entry level version.

Public Service Loan Forgiveness: How to Qualify (and Why So Few People Do)

The U.S. Department of Education recently released some startling and sobering statistics regarding its Public Service Loan Forgiveness program: Of the 29,000 applications for student loan forgiveness that have been filed thus far, an astounding 99% of them were denied.

As one news organization pointed out, you have better odds of getting accepted into an Ivy League school than getting a Public Service Loan Forgiveness application approved.

Created in 2007, the Public Service Loan Forgiveness (PSLF) program was designed to reward those who spend at least 10 years working in the public sector – in other words, a thank-you to teachers, public defenders, nurses, firefighters, and cops, for example.