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In Sickness and in Wealth: Why Today’s Couples Keep Separate Accounts

This post comes from Shana Lebowitz at our partner site LearnVest.

It’s hard to find a more romantic topic than banking—but nearly every couple eventually faces the question: Should we combine our money or keep separate accounts?

According to a new survey by TD Bank, the answer is often “both.” Nearly half (42%) of couples with joint bank accounts also keep individual ones.

Independence was the most commonly cited reason for maintaining separate accounts, though women were more likely to value their financial freedom: 43% of women said independence was their top motivation, compared to 34% of men.

There Is No “Magic Bullet”

Whenever I face a problem in my life, I want to solve it. Now. The sooner the better.

When Sarah and I first started to face up to our financial troubles in 2006, I wanted a solution. Now. The sooner the better.

I went to the library and checked out a mountain of books. I buried myself deep into the pages. I went crazy with frugality, counting every single penny. I cleaned out my closet and sold everything I could reasonably sell.

And it wasn’t enough.

It took the majority of a decade to get things straightened out. During that decade, I spent two years essentially working two full time jobs and launched a small business while my wife continued to work full time and we also dug deep into frugality, finding many, many ways to save a buck.

I spent those years – and the years since – looking into virtually every entrepreneurship and debt repayment and frugality idea and system that I could find.

What did I learn?

Ask the readers: Do you gamble?

This article is by staff writer April Dykman.

When I was in college, I dated a guy with money problems.

For instance, six months into the relationship, I found out that he owed a few people money. Like his ex-girlfriend. And then his dad, who gave him the money to pay the ex-girlfriend. And then he still owed the ex-girlfriend, since he spent the money his dad gave him on who knows what.

Thinking About Vacation

For the past two years, we've taken our "big" vacation each January. We're trying to take fun and exciting trips with our kids while they are still home, before college kicks in and they scatter to one place or another.

For reference, we took a 10-day Caribbean cruise in 2012 and a 12-day one in 2013 (which was preceded by two days in New York City). In January 2014 we did not take a big trip for several reasons:

Building a Better Day

On Tuesday, I woke up, got the kids ready for school, spread organic fertilizer over our back yard, got in contact with a local Congressional campaign about volunteering for them, spent two hours at the library doing research, wrote three articles, read a few chapters of a challenging book, played with my children for a good hour, made a frittata for supper, walked two miles, spent thirty minutes creating an elaborate bedtime story with my kids, and finally passed out from exhaustion. I was genuinely tired – physically and mentally – at the end of the day.

My Wednesday wasn’t that much different, except with a few different activities involved. I attended a school play. I helped my daughter with her piano practice. I worked on a great plan for a future project.

Reader Mailbag: The Walk

What’s inside? Here are the questions answered in today’s reader mailbag, boiled down to five word summaries. Click on the number to jump straight down to the question.
1. Space heaters
2. Trader Joe’s
3. Too cheap around friends
4. Keeping funds separate
5. Parenting and work
6. Clark Howard thoughts
7. Dealing with partner’s debt
8. Lending Club as borrower
9. Parental guilt

In defense of frugality

This article is by staff writer Kristin Wong.

Frugality isn’t very sexy. I’ll admit that.

For most people, the concept of thrift probably conjures images of coupon clipping, stock photos of piggy banks, and Benjamin Franklin — none of which are terribly glamorous.

Frugality, is, however, in line with the concept of getting rich slowly. We’ve learned that building wealth has much to do with living below your means. You have to increase your income, yes. But in the process of looking for ways to earn more — whether it’s negotiating, switching careers, picking up side gigs — frugality is your friend.

Crib Notes on the 6 Best Personal Finance TED Talks

There are some amazing TED talks about saving money out there, but what about saving time? As in, the time that it takes to watch them all.

We've got you covered. We've picked out the 6 best personal finance TED talks. AND, we've written up crib notes for you.

This Is How You Get a New Job This Year

Whether you're unemployed or looking to take your career to the next level, there are ways to snag a new job before the end of this year. Yes — given the stubbornly high unemployment rate, and the fact that many employers are bombarded with resumes and applications, getting noticed isn't without its challenges. But don't let this discourage you. Here's a look at 10 ways to get a new job this year.

Best Money Tips: Tried-and-Tested Tips For a Frugal Life

Welcome to Wise Bread's Best Money Tips Roundup! Today we found some wonderful articles on tried-and-tested tips for a frugal life, what to do to shine at work, and tricks for spotting the best deals.

Top 5 Articles

66 Tried-and-Tested Tips for a Frugal Life — To live a frugal life, don't rent a modem and look for cheaper means of transportation. [PopSugar Smart Living]

If You Want To Shine at Work, Do These 5 Things — Handling bad situations like a leader can enable you to shine at work. [Lifehack]

The Simple 5-Step Plan to Complete Money Management

Do you struggle with managing your money? Is staying on top of your finances complicated and time-consuming for you?

If so, follow the simple five step plan below — and the calculators and tools suggested for each — to get in control. With these simple tools, you have everything you need to make sure you're achieving your financial goals. (See also: Painless Ways to Manage Money With a Partner)

1. Create a Debt Elimination Plan

This is the most important tool. You can't build wealth and win the money game as long as you're in debt.

How to Get Travel Discounts on Stuff You've Already Booked

Travel booking is a complex game. You spend hours researching and monitoring various websites to get the best deals on flights, hotel reservations, and rental cars. If the price drops after all your hard work, you can feel like all your effort has been wasted. (See also: Secrets of Last Minute Travel)

Fortunately, there are several tools you can now use to protect yourself from price fluctuations. These tools monitor prices, so you can take advantage of any price drops that happen — even after you've made a booking.

5 Awesome Cooking Tricks for Single People

You're eating another bowl of cereal or a single serve microwave meal — again. You don't have a lot of time, and because it's just you for dinner, why go crazy, right? Wrong! You are the very best thing you've got in your life, and you need to take care of you. (See also: Bulk Buying Basics)

12 Ways to Cut Down on Garbage and Save Money Too!

When I was a child, my family saved hundreds of dollars a year by cancelling our residential trash service and hauling our own junk to the dump instead. Once a month my sister and I would load the household garbage into the pickup truck and escort our father to the town dump. We liked going to the dump. The spectacle of sanitation workers racing around the garbage pit on their bulldozers had an entertaining "Mad Max: Beyond Thunderdome" quality. Also, as a reward for our services, our dad would take us for breakfast at Denny's on the way home.

7 Secrets to Scoring the Best Price When Buying on eBay

Everybody loves a good online bargain, and eBay is one of those places where you can find great deals...or you could be totally ripped off. Here are the secrets to getting the best price on eBay. (See also: 5 Things You Can Resell on eBay That Still Make Money)

1. Search for Misspelled Items

You know what you want: a Tiffany's silver bracelet. Like everybody else you're going to type "tiffany silver bracelet" in the search box and start browsing sellers. The problem with this approach is that you may get in bidding wars with other people because you're looking where everybody is looking.

How Does “Pay Yourself First” or “Bank on Yourself” Really Work?

I often see and hear ads for programs that involve the ideas of “banking on yourself” or “paying yourself first.” They’re pretty prevalent on talk radio and you’ll sometimes see ads for programs like these in the newspaper or in the back of financial magazines.

The claims made in the ads seem extraordinary. Many of them claim to allow you to eventually borrow money from yourself rather than borrowing money from a bank when you need to make a major purchase (like buying a home). Many also claim to provide a road straight to financial independence.

It should be noted that I’m grouping several different systems together into one post. There are a lot of variations on what I’m about to describe. The information below doesn’t describe any one system exactly, but many of these programs follow the same general framework.

Here’s how the system works in general.

Naked With Cash: Betsey S, April 2014

Naked With Cash is an ongoing series at Consumerism Commentary in which readers share their households’ finances with other readers. These participants benefit from the accountability that comes from tracking their finances publicly and the feedback of the four expert Certified Financial Planners (CFPs).

For more information, read this introduction.

The Simple Dollar Weekly Roundup: Road Trip Edition

This summer, my family along with some additional guests are going on a lengthy road trip that will involve visiting an ocean, hitting multiple national parks, and stopping at Disneyworld along the way.

Given that the group size would virtually require two vehicles, we spent a lot of time trying to find a way to rent a large passenger van so we could all ride together.

I had a chance to check out the perfect vehicle – a Nissan NV Passenger. It just checks off every box for our trip.

The problem? Renting it is prohibitively expensive. It just doesn’t make financial sense, no matter how nice it would be. We sat down and calculated the costs of driving two of our own vehicles on the trip and including all of the depreciation and fuel and maintenance, the two vehicles are just far less expensive than renting one comparable vehicle.

A guide to managing your fear of money

This article is by staff writer Kristin Wong.

My first year of high school, I was looking for an easy, goof-off elective — a class that would allow me to take a break in between Geometry and English, and maybe catch up on some magazines or take a quick nap. “Debate” sounded right up my half-assed alley.

On the first day of class, I was told we’d have to attend tournaments, in which we’d debate on topical issues. Politics. In front of people. I was a quiet student, and the most I knew about politics was that President Clinton had a cat named Socks.

The thought of a debate tournament terrified me. But, because I was also lazy, I chose not to drop the class. I’ll just deal with this fear later, I thought.