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When Work Becomes Overwhelming

As I mentioned a month or so ago, I’ve come to the recognition that time management is a vital part of personal finance. It not only helps your career, it also has an impact on your focus throughout the day and on your other financial choices. With that in mind, I’m writing occasional articles on time management issues.

Most of us have jobs where the work ebbs and flows. Sometimes, there’s not much going on – there aren’t many customers or you’re in between projects. At other times, it feels insane and you’re devoting what seems like all of your time and energy to your job.

Often, it’s your performance during those crunch times that determines how valuable you are in your workplace. The person that doesn’t come through when the chips are down is going to be the first person out the door when downsizing occurs.

Ten Pieces of Inspiration #166

Each week, I highlight ten things each week that inspired me to greater financial, personal, and professional success. Hopefully, they will inspire you as well.

1. Michael J. Fox on happiness, acceptance, and expectations

“My happiness grows in direct proportion to my acceptance and in inverse proportion to my expectations.” – Michael J Fox

The future rarely pans out exactly how you want. If you expect great things to happen, life is going to constantly disappoint you.

2. Patience

Patience is one of the greatest gifts you can give to those you love.

3. Robert Brault on finding relationships

“Having perfected our disguise, we spend our lives searching for someone we don’t fool.” – Robert Brault

Approaching Fears

All of us have a fear or two that keeps us up through the night. Maybe it’s debt or being unable to take care of your family. Maybe it’s a lack of money for retirement. Maybe it’s a health issue or early death.

My biggest fear, without a doubt, is passing away before my children reach adulthood. I’m not worried that Sarah will be able to provide a good childhood for my children. My worry is that they won’t have the two-parent opportunities that they have now and that they will wonder what kind of person their father was when they reach adulthood.

My second biggest fear is that I’m not doing enough to create lots of income streams for steady income for my family. Let’s say, for some reason, that my arrangement for writing The Simple Dollar ceased. I have some additional sources of income, but not nearly as many as I would like. I’ve dabbled in many things over the years, meaning that I have lots of “trickles.”

Looking Ahead at Automotive Decisions

Every once in a while, it’s useful to look at the state of the automobiles that your family owns and ask some hard questions about upcoming costs, both in terms of repair and eventual replacement. I thought I’d walk through these questions as they relate to our own cars to provide some ideas of what you might want to be thinking about. We try to revisit these questions a few times a year.

Automobile #1: 2004 Honda Pilot

We purchased our Honda Pilot off of Craigslist for cash in April 2010. It was actually a very easy purchase, as they took the vehicle we were replacing off of our hands at the same time for a reduction in the cost of the Pilot.

Failing at Personal Finance

Recently, I’ve been reading the wonderful book The Up Side of Down by Megan McArdle, someone whose writings I’ve enjoyed for a very long time.

The premise of the book is that, at some point in our lives, we’re going to fail. We’ll fail at a relationship or at launching a business or at a college course. Most of us will fail quite often.

McArdle’s argument is that failure is usually far more illuminating than success. When you fail, you have to deal with that failure. You learn internal coping mechanisms that show you how to emotionally handle it, for starters.

Reader Mailbag: February Thaw

What’s inside? Here are the questions answered in today’s reader mailbag, boiled down to five word summaries. Click on the number to jump straight down to the question.
1. Helping sibling with retirement
2. Cheap haircuts
3. Podcast baby steps
4. Recent graduate with car trouble
5. Selling car
6. Handling big raise
7. Down payment or investment?
8. Contradicting financial advice
9. Splitting rent

Does the Investing Advice of a Billionaire Help Ordinary People?

A reader passed along this interesting interview from the Wall Street Journal with Mark Cuban. For those unfamiliar, Cuban is a billionaire who made a significant amount of his wealth in the early days of the internet era. His argument in this interview? Diversification is “for idiots.”

First of all, let’s talk about what diversification actually means.

Diversification means that you’re investing in a number of different things so that you’re not as badly affected if one of them falls. For example, when the stock market falls in price, that doesn’t mean that real estate will also fall.

So, let’s say you have half of your money in stocks and half of your money in real estate. If stocks fall 40% this year and real estate stays steady, you’ll only lose 20% of your money. Of course, on the other hand, if the stock market goes up 20% and real estate stays the same, then you will only gain 10%.

The Simple Dollar Weekly Roundup: Winter Blues Edition

Most winters, I get a strong case of the “winter blues.” It usually manifests itself in a sense of feeling really tired, particularly in the darkest parts of winter.

This winter, strangely enough, I’ve barely had any blues at all. I’ve felt largely normal throughout most of the winter.

This is particularly strange, because this has been one of the coldest and snowiest winters in a very long time. We’ve run our snowblower at least a dozen times and had many cancelled days of school.

There must be something different in my routine or my diet, but I can’t figure out what it is. It’s a mystery to me.

Six Tactics for Handling Piles of Credit Card Debt

This article first appeared at U.S. News and World Report Money.

A lot of American families have a lot of credit card debt. The average U.S. household credit card debt is $15,270. That’s almost a third of the annual median household income in the United States.

On top of that, 72% of Americans are living in a paycheck-to-paycheck situation, meaning that if they have an employment disruption or a major expense, they’re going to have to immediately start skipping bills.

Don’t Cut Where It Hurts (At Least, Not at First)

The one part about turning around your personal finance situation that everyone dreads is the cutbacks.

It’s easy to see why. Your normal, everyday life is what has led you to this financial corner. In order to turn the ship around, you’re going to have to make some changes to your normal, everyday life.

People don’t like changes.

Even people who seem to have the most carefree and the most varied lives have lots of patterns and routines in their lives. They like certain things. They prefer certain activities and foods and drinks.

Human beings are all about routines and patterns and the mere suggestion of seriously altering those routines for very long seems rather dreadful.

What makes it even worse is that the first things people imagine cutting are the things that they know are non-essential but that they also deeply enjoy.