This article is by staff writer William Cowie.
Confession time: Despite a financial and business education more comprehensive than most, I never invested. I grew up poor and just couldn’t wait for my first “serious” job and those big bucks. It was so bad, I decided to drop out of college in my senior year. “None of this ivory-tower crap is going to make me any more money,” I told everyone who would listen. Fortunately, both of them were able to talk me off the ledge. One of them was my future wife, bless her little gizzard.
This past weekend, Sarah and I enjoyed a “getaway weekend” in the Amana Colonies with another couple that we’ve been friends with for many years.
Whenever Sarah and I have a “getaway weekend,” we plan ahead for a budget for that trip, setting a soft limit on how much we’re going to spend on food and other items, and this weekend was no different.
Most of the weekend was very enjoyable. However, on Sunday morning, our “soft limit” popped up and became a potentially problematic part of the weekend.
We stopped at Prairie Lights Bookstore because both Sarah and I appreciate and support independent bookstores. When we stopped, we did a quick review of the items we had purchase.
What’s inside? Here are the questions answered in today’s reader mailbag, boiled down to five word summaries. Click on the number to jump straight down to the question.
1. Elevation Group question
2. Income and home ownership
3. Prime price change
4. Struggling with expensive housing
5. LED bulbs break even point?
6. Buying gift cards
7. Handling an art collection
8. Ashamed of overspending
9. Praying for financial change
Although I was tracking my net worth closely, I can’t pinpoint the exact moment my total net worth would have crossed into seven figures and someone might consider me a millionaire. It was something I wasn’t thinking about for a variety of reasons, but because I was an entrepreneur, I was the owner of a business that was increasing in value. It was difficult to assign a specific value to that business, but because I ended up selling that business — this website — the buyer and I both had to agree on a value.
Sometime before then, I also crossed the point of having a balance sheet that included investable (non-business) assets of a million dollars. One of the reasons I stopped publicly tracking my finances as I wasn’t interested in drawing attention to the fact. I tracked my finances to hold myself accountable for making better decisions with my money on a day-to-day basis; as my business grew, most daily decisions had little impact on my financial well-being.
This post is by staff writer Honey Smith.
Jake and I have two cats and a dog. To us, having pets is one of the most important aspects of our lives and identity. You might even consider it a hobby. Unfortunately, it is a hobby that, as you will see, has not always been entirely strategic.
Our love for animals has permeated much of our lives. I’ve been vegetarian for over a decade, and Jake was veggie for six years and still cuts back where he can. We also have a standing commitment to donate only to animal welfare organizations. They’re our charities of choice!
Meet Julius, the almost-third cat
We suspect you don’t really need another reason to buy a bigger pizza. But if you do, here’s a great one: You’ll get more pizza for your money if you go with the larger pie. Quoctrung Bui of Planet Money recently studied this after noticing something while eating lunch with an engineer. Though the engineer [...]
Always buy the biggest pizza…That’s why God created freezers…And big ziplock bags from personal finance blog Bargaineering.com.
This blog was posted by Mitch Strohm
Time recently posted that nearly half of Americans live paycheck-to-paycheck. Their summary:
Too many of us are living paycheck to paycheck. The CFED calls these folks “liquid asset poor,” and its report finds that 44% of Americans are living with less than $5,887 in savings for a family of four.
A few thoughts on this:
Bankers are not easy to love. In fact, from the mean old man in “It’s a Wonderful Life” to the bonus-baby CEOs who put the world through the financial crisis a few years ago, bankers have become a class of citizen that people love to hate. Like a lot of hatred, though, that sentiment might come back to haunt the hater — specifically, bank customers.
Bankers almost seem to be the inspiration for the concept of schadenfreude: the feeling of enjoyment that comes from the misfortunes of others. For example, I recently read two stories about bankers that most people would react to with something between an indifferent shrug and a satisfied chuckle:
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During the first three or four years of our marriage, Sarah and I regularly argued about money issues. It never seemed as though there was enough money to pay for everything and, of course, it must be the other person’s fault, so we’d argue.
Now? I honestly can’t remember our last argument about money. We have had some disagreements, but those disagreements haven’t escalated into an argument in a long time.
I could go on and on about our money conversations. We talk about goals all the time and we run through bills separately and together. We make sure to have a chat about any expenditure that’s even slightly unusual. Communication is incredibly valuable.
Still, I believe the source of our financial and marital peace goes deeper than that. It comes from a few truths that we both hold dear and because of those truths it is very easy to talk about money.
Sarah and I have a laid-back policy when it comes to how our children spend their money. We regulate their allowance to a certain extent by requiring that they give a certain amount to charity and save some for the future (as discussed here). We also require that they put aside a little for a personal savings goal, usually an expensive toy, but as for the rest? They can spend it as they wish.
Our youngest child isn’t really old enough to understand how allowance works. We just give him a few quarters for his piggy bank each week.
For the others? It’s evolved in an interesting way and goes through a cycle.
Hey, everybody. J.D. here. Last September, I traveled to Ecuador to participate in a good old-fashioned chautauqua. Near Otavalo, I joined Mr. Money Mustache, Jim Collins, and Cheryl Reed to share what we knew about wealth and happiness. Twenty-two smart Canadians and Americans joined us for a week of workshops, one-on-one meetings, and excursions into the beautiful Ecuadoran countryside.
About a month ago, I spent about $150 on a giant pile of used books for a tabletop role playing game. A friend of mine was moving out of the country so I “borrowed ahead” on my personal spending money and dove in headfirst. I deeply enjoy tabletop role playing games and I will likely never get this many books at that price again, plus I was helping someone who was trying to liquidate all of his possessions to make a major life change.
(For those interested, the book collection included several Pathfinder hardbacks and a few complete Pathfinder Adventure Paths.)
It was a splurge. It was a big splurge (at least for me at this point). Typically, when I make a purchase that large, I spend quite a bit of time thinking about it. I didn’t really do that this time, mostly because I didn’t have time to do that kind of reflection.
Each week, I highlight ten things each week that inspired me to greater financial, personal, and professional success. Hopefully, they will inspire you as well.
1. George Carlin on work
“Most people work just hard enough not to get fired and get paid just enough money not to quit.” – George Carlin
The people that don’t do this always stand out.
2. Shlomo Benartzi on saving for tomorrow, tomorrow
This is very good advice.
3. Bruce Lee on flexibility
“You must be shapeless, formless, like water. When you pour water in a cup, it becomes the cup. When you pour water in a bottle, it becomes the bottle. When you pour water in a teapot, it becomes the teapot. Water can drip and it can crash. Become like water, my friend.” – Bruce Lee
The idea of investing in stocks (outside of retirement accounts) can be rather stressful if you’ve never done it.
Just figuring out what to invest in can be really confusing. Am I doing the right thing? Is this worth the risk? When you add taxes to the equation, it can get really, really confusing – and troubling.
Once Sarah and I reached debt freedom, we needed to figure out how to invest our money. We chose to invest at least some of it in stocks. In doing so, we figured out a lot of things about stock investments, but we also learned some things about taxes. Here are the questions that scared us the most in this process, along with simple answers to those questions.
What are “capital gains”?
Quite a few of the letters in the reader mailbag boil down to figuring out which of two or three options is the highest priority. People will want to compare investing options to paying down their mortgage or whether they should have an emergency fund or pay off a credit card.
The reality is that the actual financial difference between these options – for many people – is pretty small.
We all know that the land of the free isn't really "free" at all.
While opportunity may abound in America, bills tend to do the same, as we all need to put food on the table and keep personal finances well-attended to.
At the same time, some places are cheaper to live in than others, and certain cities that lend themselves well to frugal lifestyles and the agenda of the penny pincher. These cities are not only inexpensive, but the quality of life and opportunity there is still pretty good. (See also: Cheap Places to Live as an Expat)
This article is by editor Linda Vergon.
Part 2 is What do you do if you can’t make ends meet? (Part 2)
There are times when it doesn’t work. You lost your job or you can’t get a job. Your ex-wife takes you to court. Your partner absconds with the money in your business account. Your business fails. Your car dies. Your health takes an unexpected turn for the worse. Sometimes you’re actually just trying to get to the next day – and you don’t know exactly how you’ll get there.
Welcome to Wise Bread's Best Money Tips Roundup! Today we found some awesome articles on saving money at the pump, plugging your financial leaks, and conversation starters that make mingling fun.
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10 Ways to Save Money at the Gas Pump — Using your brakes as little as possible and avoiding traffic can help you save at the gas pump. [Canadian Finance Blog]
John Wayne, an American icon of fearlessness, famously said, "Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." We're all afraid of something. What defines us is not that fear, but how we rise above it. Below are effective methods I've used to conquer my many fears and live a rich, fulfilling life in the process. (See also: How to Do Things That Scare You)
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