I think that the person who asked should expect to pay, but to be honest it gave a good impression when the guy paid, or at least then paid for part of it (ex - bought movie tickets or drinks after dinner even if I asked him out).
I think the man should pay for the first date. It would be very awkward for a woman to pull out he wallet the first time! I think my now-husband paid for the first few dates, then I invited him somewhere and I paid.
The man who would become my husband was so visibly nervous on our first date (we still laugh about it) that when the bill arrived, I grabbed it put my card down and handed it to him to do the same. If he had insisted on paying, that probably would have ended the relationship. As it was, the stress relief of my actions made us laugh so hard that it was clear we would get along fine. 4 years into marriage now, we aren't perfect, but we have a good relationship, laugh a lot, and communicate well.
I am selling a purse on CR and got the following text message: "I will pay 400, will proceed with this purchase. Am paying with a cashier’s check/bank check at the moment so kindly text me the name to write on the check & the address to mail it out to, I won’t also be able to come to look at it to inspect the condition due to heavy work schedule. Pick up would be arranged at your place after you have the check cashed." I replied something like, How about meeting at a bank when you have the cash? and received no answer. I am 100% sure this is a scam and have no intention on giving them my personal info or cashing a check! I reported them to FTC hotline: 877-FTC-HELP (877-382-4357)
I personally think that the person who asks another on a date should pay. And then after that (should there be another date), I think the two parties should take turns asking each other to do things/pay the bill. There are always exceptions of course; this is just a rule of thumb.
#5 is a great point! Inman reported that a large number of agents are willing to lower commissions, but they just don't like to advertise that fact. Negotiating in person can be pretty intimidating, but sites like UpNest allow you to compare proposals from multiple agents. The agents are competing so they often times lower commission rates to earn your business.
Hey, did you know it's actually pretty difficult to adopt a dog you like from a shelter? I've tried a couple of times, and it's just too much trouble. By the time they approve you, you could probably save the money and buy a new dog. It's sad, but true. Now, it might be easier, if you're willing to take any dog...I don't know. The shelters would probably be empty if they would just lighten up a bit. I think something like background checks for animal abuse would be good, but other than that...if you'd like a dog from the shelter, you should be able to go down there, pick one up and go home. I mean, they're eventually going to be put down, so you're basically saving whatever dog you take.
Great suggestions for entertaining children cheaply - and, what's more, all these things are better for the kids than the video games, pricey outings, fancy toys that the rich kids get. Children need activities that stimulate their imagination, allow them to explore their talents and interests, and that give them a chance to share ideas, emotions and worries with their caregivers. Great job!
The guy. Call me old fashioned, but it takes women more time, money and energy to get ready for a date, so he should pay. Once you're really dating there's plenty of time to go Dutch but on the first date he should pay.
I think the man should pay, but the woman should have $ in her purse, just in case.
The reviews of the Warpia are pretty bad, I wouldnt call a device so poorly ranked a game changer
I think that the person who asked should expect to pay, but to be honest it gave a good impression when the guy paid, or at least then paid for part of it (ex - bought movie tickets or drinks after dinner even if I asked him out).
I think the man should pay for the first date. It would be very awkward for a woman to pull out he wallet the first time! I think my now-husband paid for the first few dates, then I invited him somewhere and I paid.
Split the check. I think its reflective of my financial independence and outlook that I'm comfortable with the non-traditional.
I don't think the woman should pay on the first date but i am not opposed to the woman paying shortly after.
The person who asked the other out should pay. Otherwise it should be split 50/50!
The man who would become my husband was so visibly nervous on our first date (we still laugh about it) that when the bill arrived, I grabbed it put my card down and handed it to him to do the same. If he had insisted on paying, that probably would have ended the relationship. As it was, the stress relief of my actions made us laugh so hard that it was clear we would get along fine. 4 years into marriage now, we aren't perfect, but we have a good relationship, laugh a lot, and communicate well.
I agree that the person who invites should be the person who pays. After that, treats should be done equally.
I am selling a purse on CR and got the following text message: "I will pay 400, will proceed with this purchase. Am paying with a cashier’s check/bank check at the moment so kindly text me the name to write on the check & the address to mail it out to, I won’t also be able to come to look at it to inspect the condition due to heavy work schedule. Pick up would be arranged at your place after you have the check cashed." I replied something like, How about meeting at a bank when you have the cash? and received no answer. I am 100% sure this is a scam and have no intention on giving them my personal info or cashing a check! I reported them to FTC hotline: 877-FTC-HELP (877-382-4357)
I think the guy should pay.
Whoever did the asking should pay! :)
My mother has always told me (and now I tell my daughter the same thing) that if you initiate the invite then be prepared to pay for the date!
I personally think that the person who asks another on a date should pay. And then after that (should there be another date), I think the two parties should take turns asking each other to do things/pay the bill. There are always exceptions of course; this is just a rule of thumb.
Split the check.
#5 is a great point! Inman reported that a large number of agents are willing to lower commissions, but they just don't like to advertise that fact. Negotiating in person can be pretty intimidating, but sites like UpNest allow you to compare proposals from multiple agents. The agents are competing so they often times lower commission rates to earn your business.
I think the person who asked should pay.
I think whoever asked for the date should pay for it!
Better forget the suggestion to pack lots of bottled water in #4... Maybe pack a self filtering water bottle to fill at the gate.
Hey, did you know it's actually pretty difficult to adopt a dog you like from a shelter? I've tried a couple of times, and it's just too much trouble. By the time they approve you, you could probably save the money and buy a new dog. It's sad, but true. Now, it might be easier, if you're willing to take any dog...I don't know. The shelters would probably be empty if they would just lighten up a bit. I think something like background checks for animal abuse would be good, but other than that...if you'd like a dog from the shelter, you should be able to go down there, pick one up and go home. I mean, they're eventually going to be put down, so you're basically saving whatever dog you take.
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Great suggestions for entertaining children cheaply - and, what's more, all these things are better for the kids than the video games, pricey outings, fancy toys that the rich kids get. Children need activities that stimulate their imagination, allow them to explore their talents and interests, and that give them a chance to share ideas, emotions and worries with their caregivers. Great job!
I think the person who initiate the date should pay. However, I am not against splitting on the first date, as long as it is discussed openly.
I'm old-school. If a man asks a woman, he should pay. If it is just a mutual "let's get coffee" kind of thing, they should each pay for their own.
The guy. Call me old fashioned, but it takes women more time, money and energy to get ready for a date, so he should pay. Once you're really dating there's plenty of time to go Dutch but on the first date he should pay.