I write for a living, mostly for websites. It’s not surprising that I have a great deal of use for a number of electronic items. I have a smartphone, a reasonably modern computer, a laptop, and an iPad Mini.
Almost since the day I graduated from college, using computers and other electronic devices has been an essential part of my professional life and a useful part of my personal life. I’ve been buying and upgrading electronic items of all kinds for more than a decade.
Of course, in the middle of that period, my financial life took a painful turn, forcing me to start making real changes to how I spent my money and my time. This led not only to serious changes in our family’s spending, but also to a career change for myself. We had three kids and bought a house on top of that.
One of the biggest frustrations I have as a money-conscious person is when I toss something out that could have been used if I had just planned better. It’s painful whether I’m tossing out something that’s rusty, something that’s water damaged, or something that’s spoiled.
This “tossing out ‘could have been used’ stuff” phenomenon happens most often when I’m dealing with food. I’ll find something in the fridge that was left over from too many days ago or I’ll discover a piece of fruit that’s gone bad and I’ll feel awful as I’m tossing it out.
I don’t like to toss food. It’s a waste of money. It’s not exactly helpful to the environment, either.
What’s inside? Here are the questions answered in today’s reader mailbag, boiled down to five word summaries. Click on the number to jump straight down to the question.
1. Working during downtime
2. Choosing among retirement options
3. Charge card or credit card?
4. Baseball cards
5. Money left over in budget
6. Is being vegetarian expensive?
7. Alcoholism and money
8. Fuel efficiency not worth it?
9. 401(k) issue
In general, I’m pretty strongly opposed to the idea of leasing a car. In most situations, a car lease is a long-term financial mistake. Compared to a cycle of buying late model used cars and driving them to their replacement point, auto leasing is very expensive.
Still, there are exceptions to every situation. A recent Reader Mailbag question, in which a reader was struggling with a particularly peculiar lease situation, led me to realize that there are, in fact, situations where a lease might make more financial sense than buying a car.
Mostly, these situations revolve around turning elements that might be negatives regarding leases into positives. Note that this is a might – you’ll want to simply take a closer look in these situations and buying is likely to still be better.
Let’s take a look at three of them.
Shelley writes in:
My husband and I have been considering moving to the Great Plains in order to enjoy smaller town life and much lower cost of living. I have been reading about Rural Opportunity Zones in Kansas and I am wondering what you think of them.
Rural Opportunity Zones are just that – rural areas where there’s an additional financial incentive to move there.
What’s a Rural Opportunity Zone?
Rural Opportunity Zones refers to a state system in Kansas whereby the state financially rewards people for moving into rural areas of the state from elsewhere. You can read all about the plan, but here’s the skinny:
Rural Opportunity Zones are 73 counties that have been authorized to offer one or both of the following financial incentives to new full-time residents:
Kansas income tax waivers for up to five years
Student loan repayments up to $15,000
What is the financial value of a hug from one of your children?
You might scoff at this question or think that it’s somehow foolish, but I’m serious. What is a hug from one of your children worth?
Five dollars? Ten dollars? Thousands? Nothing?
It probably has a lot to do with your own internal values. If you relish being a parent, a hug likely has a higher value than if you dislike parenthood. If you had a deep connection to a child when they were young and now they’re older, a hug probably has a premium, too.
Not a parent? A hug from a child may have little value, or none at all.
The challenging part of a question like this is that a hug, like many other things in life, can be given freely with no real cost to the giver. The same is true of a kiss or a kind word or a laugh or some companionship.
Yet, by giving such things, value is received by the recipient and, often, by the giver as well.
Each week, I highlight ten things each week that inspired me to greater financial, personal, and professional success. Hopefully, they will inspire you as well.
1. Antoine de Saint-Exupery on goals and plans
“A goal without a plan is just a wish.” – Antoine de Saint-Exupery
I highly recommend The Little Prince as a children’s book (de Saint-Expuery is the author).
2. Jia Jiang on 100 days of rejection
Rejection isn’t the end of the world. Sometimes it’s more like the start.
3. Confucius on studying
“In old days men studied for the sake of self-improvement; nowadays men study in order to impress other people.” – Confucius
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I really enjoy a big gulp of orange juice. That mix of tartness and sweetness across my tongue is just sublime.
I relish the feeling I get from pulling the plastic off of a new board game and popping out all of the pieces. The smell, the sound, and the tactile feeling all bring me joy.
I like the sense of fullness I get after a really delicious meal, where I sit around the table with friends nursing a beverage and having a great conversation.
I love that twinge of pleasure from a scone that’s been dipped in coffee.
These little pleasures are nice things, but they each last for only a moment or two before they drift away.
Although the specifics of that little pleasure are usually forgotten, we implant a little memory in ourselves, one that simply tells us that the experience is a good one and that we want it.
So we seek it out, again and again.
Them.
It’s easy to blame them.
If it wasn’t for them, I would have a good job. I would have a publishing contract. I would have more money. I would have that promotion.
If it wasn’t for them, I would have the life I dream of.
Here’s the truth: whenever you waste a second of your energy or your thought blaming them for outcomes in your life that you don’t like, you’re spending a second ensuring that things won’t get better for you.
No matter what, there are always going to be other people that affect our outcomes in life. Bosses. Doctors. Interviewers. Lawyers. Politicians. Salespeople. Marketers. Friends. Family.
Sometimes, their impact is going to be positive. Sometimes, it is going to be negative. There’s nothing you can do about that.
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