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The Thousand Mile Journey: Making Long-Term Goals Matter in Your Day-to-Day Life

I have a long term goal of publishing a novel. I’ve always enjoyed writing fiction, but I’ll often write short stories or novellas and find myself really dissatisfied with them, so I’ll toss them aside. I’ve written a few novel-length pieces too and felt the same way – I was just never happy with them.

Still, I hold onto that long-term goal. I want to achieve it. I’m willing to commit a lot of time to it. I just can’t quite make it happen.

The big reason is that the goal seems too big, too distant. I feel like my current writing is so far away from what I would need to make this work that it’s just… insurmountable.

I actually have a few giant goals like this that seem insurmountable. They feel so big and so far off in the distance that, on a given day, I really don’t feel like I can reach them.

When I spend too much time focusing on how huge those goals are, I don’t even try.

Hindsight Bias and Personal Finance

We’ve all heard the old nugget: hindsight is 20/20, right? From the perch we sit on right now, the mistakes of the past look obvious. Why couldn’t we have predicted it?

At the same time, we often look back at our past successes and see them as practically inevitable. That’s just how the story goes, right?

We often can’t believe it when others follow a very similar path but don’t see the same success. We also can’t believe it when people follow a similar path to our own and see far more success.

All of this falls under the umbrella of hindsight bias. Wikipedia says:

Hindsight bias, also known as the knew-it-all-along effect or creeping determinism, is the inclination, after an event has occurred, to see the event as having been predictable, despite there having been little or no objective basis for predicting it, prior to its occurrence.

Five Weekend Adventures That Teach Your Kids Frugality

Almost every weekend, particularly during the summer when I’m working at home and Sarah is on break from teaching, we plan some sort of family “adventure.”

The goal of these “adventures” is to either visit some location or engage in some large project at home that will teach the children something useful. They might learn a life skill or learn about how some element of society works. We also try to pick things that can be fun for all of us at the same time.

Naturally, Sarah and I want to encourage our children to be smart about how they spend their money and their time, so some of our activities are geared toward financial improvement. Some teach about saving money, others teach about entrepreneurship, but one big theme is frugality.

Ten Pieces of Inspiration #179

Each week, I highlight ten things each week that inspired me to greater financial, personal, and professional success. Hopefully, they will inspire you as well.

1. Thomas Fuller on the differences between people

“The real difference between men is energy. A strong will, a settled purpose, an invincible determination, can accomplish almost anything; and in this lies the distinction between great men and little men.” — Thomas Fuller

If you set a goal and really work for it, you’re already far ahead of the curve.

2. Andrew Solomon on the worst times of our lives

Often, those low moments help define who we are.

3. Buddha on truth

“There are two mistakes one can make along the road to truth. Not going all the way and not starting.” – Buddha

The $2,000 Question

If an emergency arrived in your life, could you come up with $2,000 in cash to cover that emergency?

Believe it or not, if you’re an American, it’s a coin flip as to whether or not you could pull this off. According to this study from the National Bureau of Economic Research, “approximately one quarter of Americans report that they would certainly not be able to come up with such funds, and an additional 19% would do so by relying at least in part on pawning or selling possessions or taking payday loans.”

At some point in our lives, almost all of us are going to face some sort of financial shock that’s going to require us to come up with $2,000 (or more) very quickly. Half of us are going to be unable to do that, which puts that group in an extremely precarious position.

Could you do it? Are you in the “safer” half of that question? Or are you in the more dangerous half?

Eleven Tactics from the Meal Assembly Line

A few months ago, I posted a detailed guide to making meals in advance. It’s a very useful guide for preparing full meals, but quite often that’s not exactly what you want. You want an individual meal you can pull out when you want.

I want this, too. Often, I eat leftovers, but lately, I’ve been enjoying pulling meals from the freezer in the morning and enjoying it for lunch.

As I’ve been experimenting with this – making several meal items on the weekends and pulling them out during the week – I’ve figured out a number of little tricks to make it easier. I mostly use BPA-free freezer, microwave, and dishwasher safe containers like these, but I’ll occasionally use frozen Ziplocs as noted below.

Spending Time, Spending Money

During a given day, I spend time on a lot of things.

I usually spend quite a bit of time doing things to earn an income – writing posts, sending emails, doing research.

I spend some time doing household tasks, which generally don’t earn much money but don’t cost much, either.

I spend some time engaging in personal tasks, such as eating and hygiene, which have some costs associated.

I also spend time engaging in hobbies and entertainment, which can vary a lot in costs.

The same is true for almost every employed person. You spend some time working – earning money – and the rest of your time revolves around expenses.

Now, as I’ve said many times, my fundamental rule of personal finance is to spend less than you earn, which breaks down to two pieces: spend less and earn more.

There’s a fundamental connection between those pieces and how we spend our time.

Reader Mailbag: Failed CEO Bonuses

What’s inside? Here are the questions answered in today’s reader mailbag, boiled down to five word summaries. Click on the number to jump straight down to the question.
1. Differing views
2. Jobs and automation
3. Investment management services
4. Handling injury settlement
5. Unusual door prize
6. Sneaking candy into theaters
7. Buy-it-for-life with a baby
8. Food date discounts
9. Jim Cramer’s frugal rant?

Card Tricks and Life

When I was a teenager, I went through a period where I was obsessed with card tricks. I learned a bunch of them – some that relied on preparing the deck beforehand, some that relied on a bit of sleight of hand, and some that relied on mental math. I was always better at understanding the tricks than performing them, though, and I was always better off at the ones that required me to think than required me to use dexterity.

Like any curious kid, I eventually wound up at the library. I checked out several books on card tricks and magic and devoured them, learning the inside tactics of many different card tricks and coin tricks.

One element that always stuck with me is that many tricks are never guaranteed success. Quite often, when you see a magician doing a card trick, they’re not sure that the trick will actually work. Usually it involves some serious uncertainty.

The Simple Dollar Weekly Roundup: Gentrification Edition

An old friend of mine bought a dirt-cheap house in a very rough neighborhood in a large city right after we graduated. He actually lived there, too, and his house was robbed at least once.

Fifteen years later, his neighborhood is becoming “gentrified.” In other words, the neighborhood has seen an influx of upscale businesses and wealthier residents. Many of these businesses and residents are refurbishing the buildings that are already in place, turning some rough buildings into very nice places. The crime rate has dropped as the community has invested in better police coverage and the property values are skyrocketing.

My friend still lives there and is now struggling with the question to sell now or stick around. In some ways, he likes how the neighborhood is changing, but he told me that the neighborhood actually had more charm ten years ago when it was mostly full of, in his words, “weirdoes and new college graduates.”