For much of the past two weeks, I've been wrestling with my mental health. I could sense a crisis coming, so I scheduled some time away. I didn't want to have to be worrying about blog posts while I was worrying about everything else. Thus, my “summer vacation”.
Long-time readers are aware that I've struggled with depression for most of my life.
In sixth grade, I missed five weeks of school with what my father called “parrot fever”. (We had parrots, and he attributed my issues to a parrot allergy.) After our family physician could find nothing wrong with me, Dad took me to his therapist. Hushed conversations followed the appointment. The verdict: I was dealing with depression.
A few years ago, when my oldest had freshly turned ten years old, he began to ask a lot of questions about our family’s financial state. He wanted to know if we saved money, how much we saved, and where we saved it. He wanted to know how we spent our money and where it went and how we kept track of that.
For a two or three month period, he kept asking these questions until, I guess, his curiosity was sated and he moved onto something else.
Unsurprisingly, those conversations gave rise to a lot of articles on The Simple Dollar. I’d start talking about something with him and realize before long that there was something in this conversation that could easily grow into an article for the site. Many articles that I wrote two to three years ago were outgrowths of those conversations.
Toward the end of her life, my grandmother's doctor told her to avoid a number of her favorite foods — including ice cream.
Gary writes in:
What exactly do you mean when you talk about financial independence? Can you break it down a little?
In simplest terms, when I talk about financial independence, I’m referring to a situation in which your living expenses are fully covered by your investments for the rest of your life. In other words, you no longer have to work for a living because you have enough in the bank to allow you to live your current lifestyle year in and year out for forever (or close to it).
Depending on which financial advice you read, that means you need to have somewhere between 25 times and 35 times your annual income in investments. That number changes depending on the aggressiveness of the investments and how many years of financial independence are being assumed. In general, I aim for the middle of that of that range and usually use a 30x multiplier (about a 3.3% withdrawal rate).
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This week's topic: Having a Frugal 4th of July!
I fail all the time.
I spend money on things I shouldn’t. I’ll see something at Target or on Amazon and buy it without giving it any sort of reflection. I’ll forget my grocery list, go to the store anyway, manage to get most of what was on the list, but buy a bunch of unintended stuff, too.
I’m not as organized as I’d like to be. I have lots of bins and boxes with random things in them. I can usually find something that I need when I need it, but it looks chaotic and no one else can make heads or tails of it.
I don’t exercise as much as I aim to. I actually don’t mind exercise when I get going, but I often fail to motivate myself to get started.
I don’t eat perfectly. I can resist sweets, but not savory snacks. I often eat more than I should when I like the taste of a meal.
I don’t stick to my goals. I usually set too many of them and find myself falling short of a lot of them.
Most of the time, my process for acquiring food and cooking at home looks something like this:
I recognize that we’re at the end of our planned meals, so it’s time to go to the grocery store. I download a grocery store flyer from the website and then start to assemble a meal plan based on that flyer, choosing recipes that incorporate a lot of that on-sale stuff. I check the pantry to make sure what other ingredients I have for those recipes, then make a list to cover what I don’t already have. I head out to the store, buy the stuff on my list, and head home. Throughout the next week, I make meals based on that meal plan, until I hit the end of the meal plan.
But what if I took a different approach, an ingredients-first approach, one that looked more like this:
It might not feel like it in some areas of the country, but we summer has started! Most families will want to have sunscreen, hats, beach towels, swimwear, and other summer gear on hand, but they definitely won't want to spend a fortune on these necessities.
How do you save on summer gear?
What’s inside? Here are the questions answered in today’s reader mailbag, boiled down to summaries of five or fewer words. Click on the number to jump straight down to the question.
1. Using rewards card for everything
2. Thoughts on Monat
3. Work, motivation, and retirement
4. Campfire cooking advice
5. Using 403(b) loan for debt
6. Uses for old spices
7. Easy beginning investment book
8. Cast iron worth the work?
9. Libra?
Most of the strategies I write about on The Simple Dollar are quite simple for most adults to understand. They’re not complex ideas. They’re not difficult to understand. They’re not challenging to visualize. They are things that almost all of us can do – some might require us to have a little bit of money in hand first and use that to grow more, but most don’t. Most of the techniques are just refinements of things people do all the time in ordinary life.
Personal finance success is not rocket science – it’s the furthest thing from it.
Spend less than you earn. Do something smart with the difference, like contributing to your 401(k) or paying off debts. That’s pretty much the core of it. Everything else is just details, like getting better at anticipating upcoming expenses.
It’s simple… but it’s not easy.
One of my favorite things to do on a lazy Saturday is check out an estate sale or estate auction. These types of sales occur when someone passes away, the family removes personal effects and neatens up a house, and then it’s partially opened so that people can go in and buy or bid on the items.
Estate sales exist in a wide variety of formats. Sometimes, they’re like yard sales, where everything has a sticker price and there’s a little room for negotiation. Sometimes, it’s an auction with an auctioneer. Sometimes, it’s a silent auction where you drop bids in a box for each item you want and then you’re contacted if you’re the winner.
One of the most valuable tools for keeping your financial life as stable as possible is to improve your ability to anticipate your future expenses and financial needs. This enables you to take some steps to prepare now for those expenses and thus reduce their impact in the future.
For people who aren’t naturally familiar with planning ahead, this can feel like a major shift in thinking. Many people simply buy groceries as needed by visiting the grocery store and wandering through the aisles to grab items needed for their next few days worth of meals. Many people respond with chagrin when they find an unexpected bill in the mail.
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This week's topic: Having a Frugal Staycation!
Joel writes in:
First, what is your car camping set-up. I’m thinking of getting a canopy tent for hanging out — something like a 10×10 foot bug protection for placing over the picnic table. Wondered if you had recommendations or even use one then thought I’d just ask about the set-up in general.
Before I dig into our own camping history and how we camp today, I want to talk a bit about why camping is a great idea.
Points and miles make it possible to see the world at a much lower cost, but that doesn't mean everyone is in the best position to earn them.
For the past seven years, the vast majority of my income has come from freelance work.
While I enjoy the entrepreneurial aspect of my career and the notion that through hard work I can significantly increase my income in a way a standard salaried job would not necessarily allow me to do, there are still drawbacks to this lifestyle. Most significantly, I never really know how much I will make from month to month.
And worse, while some months I bring in an adequate amount of money, there are plenty of months when my income drops sharply.
These fluctuations are challenging at best (particularly as a single mother, which means I’m a single income household.)
I’m not alone in experiencing this sort of volatility. Countless Americans experience income fluctuation.
Mortgage rates have dropped sharply over the past few months, giving millions of homeowners an opportunity to refinance into a more affordable loan.
The average rate on a 30-year fixed mortgage fell to 4.04% on June 12, according to Bankrate’s weekly survey of large lenders. Just four weeks earlier, the average rate was 4.25%, while it was 4.76% a year ago.
These decreases can make it tempting to refinance your mortgage. Some 6.8 million homeowners could benefit from making such a move, saving an average of $268 a month, according to real estate analytics firm Black Knight. But before you do, here are a few considerations and questions to keep in mind.
Do the Benefits Outweigh the Costs?
Determining the interest rate “trigger” point for a refinance transaction hinges largely on benefits over costs, says Peter Van Brady of SoCalVAHomes.org.
One of my favorite articles from the early days of The Simple Dollar was The Snowball Effect. In it, I took up a little nugget of an idea that I read in a back issue of the old “Tightwad Gazette” newsletter and expanded it outwards, showing how a small series of moves can transform a very small amount of money into surprisingly large financial change.
While the idea was nice, the article mostly just centered around an example that might not be all that applicable to everyone’s life, so I wanted to step back from that example and look at the idea of a frugal snowball in a more general sense, with a few examples to show how it could work in a variety of situations.
Gardening is popular hobby, and for good reason! It can be a lot of time and work, sure, but it's incredibly fulfilling to watch your plants grow from your efforts. Even better if you can eat it!
Do you have a garden? What sorts of plants do you grow?
What’s inside? Here are the questions answered in today’s reader mailbag, boiled down to summaries of five or fewer words. Click on the number to jump straight down to the question.
1. Prioritizing college or retirement?
2. Types of auto insurance
3. Possibly illegal behaviors of boss
4. Kettle efficiency for tea
5. Buy low, sell high?
6. Generic allergy medications on Amazon
7. Learning how to program
8. Comparing Roth IRA options
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