There’s a small family-owned restaurant that Sarah and I take our family to regularly. We like the employees and the owners there and have become something like “regulars,” as it’s a place we’re comfortable taking our children to for a pleasant and peaceful meal.
Anyway, as we were examining the menus during our last visit, I was distracted by the prices on some of the offerings. They had a “small” and a “big” version of many of their dishes (I don’t remember the exact term they used for each column).
Most of the prices were the same in each column – a small dish was $8.99 and a large dish was $12.99.
When we ordered, Sarah ordered as she usually does, choosing the large dish. Her plan, as usual, was to eat about half of it, then put the rest into a doggie bag to take home and then take for lunch the next day.
I usually do the same thing, but this time I chose the small dish instead, which would give me about half the food.
Several years ago, Car and Driver had an excellent article about how car companies put in a lot of extra effort to engineer the right “new car smell.” The goal? They want that smell to feel both exciting and comforting, encouraging the car buyer to both desire the smell when they’re shopping and to enjoy it while it lasts after the purchase.
That “new car smell” is carefully engineered. In fact, you can actually buy spray bottles of “new car smell” for your own car. Car dealerships use that stuff all the time in their cars to create that sense of freshness and appeal when you’re shopping for a car.
What’s inside? Here are the questions answered in today’s reader mailbag, boiled down to five word summaries. Click on the number to jump straight down to the question.
1. Mortgage question
2. Old papers
3. Renting from parents and insurance
4. Skill diversification
5. Willpower struggles
6. Space for useful stuff
7. Mortgage recasting
8. Food stamps
9. Why Americans are moving less
My biggest dreaded personal finance task is filing papers. I absolutely loathe it.
For starters, it’s a never-ending task. There are seemingly always more papers that need to be saved somewhere.
If I happen to get behind a little bit, the pile of papers that need to be filed becomes a small mountain. I just want to shove that big pile in a filing cabinet somewhere and just forget about them… which sounds great until you actually need a particular paper, then you’re spending hours digging through reams of documents trying to find one item.
I simply don’t enjoy it. If I can find an easy excuse, I put it off, and then I regret doing so because the pile of papers gets overwhelming.
I’ve really only found one way that makes all of this work for me. I break it down into tiny, tiny tasks and just do one task a day.
I am almost immediately suspicious of anyone who offers “insider” or “secret” advice or information.
First of all, if the “secret” or “insider” information were so strong, that person would be utilizing it instead of selling it. If someone is able to use their “secret” technique to turn $10 into $10,000 quickly, why are they selling that technique instead of repeatedly turning $10 into $10,000?
Second, if the “secret” or “insider” information truly gave me an edge, it’s likely that the information has already been exploited. It’s ridiculous to think that a salesman is going to sell me a special piece of financial advice that the investment banks – where armies of people and computers are constantly trying to find market inefficiencies – aren’t aware of already.
Just the other day, I was sitting at my favorite local library (if you happen to go there at the right time, you’ll probably find me sitting at a table with a notebook open in front of me with several personal finance, career, time management, and self-improvement books piled around me). I was browsing through a personal finance book – I’m not sure which one, but I’m pretty sure it was focused on retirement – and something caught my eye.
Within two paragraphs, the writer seemed to be using the words saving and investing completely interchangeably. I read the paragraphs a few times and I simply couldn’t find any difference in how the author was using the two words.
Each week, I highlight ten things each week that inspired me to greater financial, personal, and professional success. Hopefully, they will inspire you as well.
1. Peter Drucker on something new
“If you want something new, you have to stop doing something old.” – Peter F. Drucker
Our hours are already full with something, even if it’s just lounging or sleeping. If we want something new in our life, we need to replace some element of that routine with something new. There’s no other way to do it.
2. Dan Pink on the puzzle of motivation
The science of motivation is endlessly fascinating while also being incredibly useful.
3. John D. Rockefeller on pleasure and work
“I can think of nothing less pleasurable than a life devoted to pleasure.” – John D. Rockefeller
If I had to point to one idea that really shook my financial thinking and showed me the value of turning my finances around, it was the concept of exchanging my life’s energy for money, as explained in the wonderful book Your Money or Your Life.
The idea is actually pretty simple on the surface. One of the big arguments in the book is that people trade pieces of their life’s energy for money. Almost every way that people earn income involves exchanging at least some mental or physical energy for that money.
It doesn’t take much imagination to expand that trade to time as well. We trade our time and our energy for money. Whenever we pick up our keys and head off to work, we’re swapping time for money. We wouldn’t (usually) go to work without that financial compensation.
If you’ve been following news in the world of higher education over the past several years, one of the biggest issues is the potential transformative nature of free online self-directed education. These are often referred to as MOOCs – massive open online courses.
I do a large portion of my shopping online, particularly when buying gifts. I’ll spend hours hunting around online for the perfect item or the best possible price on a particular item that I want.
When it comes to the biggest websites – namely, Amazon – I feel comfortable shopping there. They’re quite secure and I’ve shopped safely there for a long time without any troubles.
Sometimes, though, I’ll find a unique item or a very strong price at a website that I’m much less familiar with. I’ll find a board game at an obscure retailer or I’ll find some handmade jewelry for a gift from some nice little mom-and-pop website.
This leaves me with a real dilemma.
I don’t feel comfortable sharing my address and credit card information with someone I don’t know. In order to share that info, I have to trust that person to some degree, and if it’s an obscure website, that trust level is honestly pretty low.
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