Each week, I highlight ten things each week that inspired me to greater financial, personal, and professional success. Hopefully, they will inspire you as well.
1. Gabriel Garcia Marquez on personal change
“Human beings are not born once and for all on the day their mothers give birth to them, but … life obliges them over and over again to give birth to themselves.” – Gabriel Garcia Marquez
We have the power within us to become better than we already are. Life shows us the rewards for doing so.
2. David Brooks on living for your resume or your eulogy
Which one matters more to you?
3. Earl Nightingale on dreams and time
“Never give up on a dream because of the time it will take to accomplish it. The time will pass anyway.” – Earl Nightingale
I’m proud to say that our youngest child is potty trained. He occasionally has an accident in the night time, but he hasn’t had a daytime accident in a long time. We’ve taken three children through this process and I felt it was worthwhile to share some thoughts on what products were actually necessary for potty training and which ones weren’t.
If you’re a parent of a young child, this article will be really useful for getting your kid through the toilet training process effectively and at a low price. If you don’t have a young child… this is probably one you can skip.
Here’s what we learned.
The first rule is the most important: every child is different. Some start earlier than others – our oldest child was actually the earliest to be potty trained because he’s always been strongly self-motivated, even as a one year old. When you put a challenge before him, he is insistent on conquering it. Our other children started later than him.
I make mistakes. A lot of them.
I spent too much money. I said something I shouldn’t have said. I wasted a bunch of time doing something foolish and unnecessary. I made a statement without properly knowing the facts behind it.
Each time I make a mistake, I’m left with two things.
I’m left with memories of having some fun in that moment or of the relationship I had before I stuck my foot in my mouth.
I’m also left with a fracture in my life. I don’t have the resources – time, money, relationships, etc. – to do the things I would like to be able to do.
It is extremely rare when the memories are worth the damage that I’ve done. It is extremely rare when I feel as though the choice I made to waste a bunch of time or money or to say something without thinking about it adds up to enough of a positive memory to overcome what I lost by doing it.
There are a lot of credit card offers out there that reward you for signing up by giving you a bunch of frequent flyer miles, hotel discounts, or big gift certificates. If you weren’t particularly worried about your credit in the short term, wouldn’t it make sense to sign up for a bunch of these, fulfill the terms of the programs, cash in the rewards, then cancel the cards?
It’s certainly conceivable. In fact, it’s a practice that a lot of people use, and they call it “churning.” Here’s an article from Daily Finance outlining the basics.
What’s inside? Here are the questions answered in today’s reader mailbag, boiled down to five word summaries. Click on the number to jump straight down to the question.
1. New company 401(k) question
2. Freezing in plastic
3. Eating cheap on road trip
4. Leasing an electric vehicle
5. Too much money into retirement?
6. Midlife crisis?
7. Pay mortgage or start investing?
8. Nonstick pans
9. Hunting for food
Two or three times a month, my family enjoys an evening meal that features pasta of some kind. We might enjoy spaghetti or lasagna or something else, depending on the mood.
However, when I go to the store to buy pasta sauce, I absolutely cringe at the prices. The “cheap” sauces are loaded with high fructose corn syrup and taste overly sweet. Some of the other sauces taste great, but you’re paying $7 (or more) for a single jar of the sauce.
Sure, such sauce is convenient, but it really adds up quick. If you buy the cheap stuff at $2 per jar, you’re adding a ton of corn syrup to your diet – even more than soda in some of the sauces.
A friend recently pointed me to the research work of Jennifer Aaker, a researcher at the Stanford Graduate School of Business. From the article: “The results show that acts designed to improve the well-being of others will lead to greater happiness for givers when these acts are associated with concretely framed, prosocial goals as opposed to abstractly framed prosocial goals – despite people’s intuitions to the contrary.”
This article first appeared at U.S. News and World Report Money.
Everyone knows about the big things that people should prepare for their loved ones in the event of their untimely passing. A will. Life insurance. A living trust. Those are the big things.
After that, there are a number of little things you can take care of that will make things much, much easier on your loved ones if you were to pass on. These things are all easy to prepare, don’t require a lawyer, and will make a huge impact on your family and friends if these documents are ever needed.
The best thing you can do is make sure that you have a safe deposit box at your local financial institution which contains these documents. Make sure that your executor and your spouse are aware of how to get into the box.
I enjoy going to yard sales. On our free spring and summer weekends, our family will burn part of the day going to these sales, looking for
Have a plan. Rather than simply trusting that we’ll find sales by serendipity, we take some time to locate sales beforehand. Sites we use include Craigslist, YardHopper, and local newspapers (both web and print).
I usually make a list organized by town so that we can hit all the sales in a particular area before moving on. If a yard sale ad lists the items that they’ll sell, I’ll note that, too.
Community yard sales make this easy. Many towns and neighborhoods have community-wide sales and provide helpful flyers listing all of the sales. This can help you fill an entire day in one area.
I define “frugality” as meaning “cutting back on the things that aren’t as important to you so that you don’t have to compromise on the things that are important to you.”
For example, I don’t particularly value anything about laundry soap except for whether or not it gets my clothes clean, so homemade laundry soap that costs $0.02 a load gets my vote.
So often, frugality sticks with just that focus. It looks exclusively at the “cutting back on things that aren’t as important to you” part of the equation, but doesn’t really address the “you don’t have to compromise on the things that are important to you.”
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