Try this little experiment. For the rest of the day (or tomorrow, if you’re reading this late in the day), whenever you interact with someone, take just a second and ask yourself what you could do during that interaction to make that other person walk away happier. Then, try to do just that.
Offer a compliment. Genuinely listen to their concerns and ask a follow-up question or two, showing that you’re listening even if you don’t have an answer. Offer the help they’re asking for if you can do so easily.
Try it out and see what happens. Note how you feel at the end of the day. Also, note how other people react to you. Make up your own mind whether or not this is a better approach toward other people than your ordinary methods.
This article first appeared at U.S. News and World Report Money.
Most personal finance advisors provide solid money advice that will help you achieve your goals. They sincerely want you to succeed, make genuine efforts to understand the specifics of your situation, and do their best to translate those specifics into a powerful plan for you.
As with any profession, however, there are sharks in the water. There are a few advisors out there who place their own interests before yours and strive to use your situation and your resources as a mere stepping stone for their own profits.
There are also advisors who genuinely believe they’re doing what’s best for you but are actually making decisions loaded with conflicts of interest, such as putting your money in good (but not great) investments for which they earn a nice commission.
A few years ago, I wrote an article looking at the differences between a Roth IRA and a 401(k) with regards to how taxes will change in the future. If taxes go up, then a Roth IRA (or Roth 401(k)) is better. If taxes go down, then a 401(k) is better.
When I’m offering financial advice for the future, I usually operate under the general assumption that income taxes are going to go up at least somewhat over the next thirty years. This has nothing to do with my personal political beliefs or anything else. It has to do with numbers.
Sarah and I are subscribers to the “buy it for life” philosophy. In short, it means that we’re willing to pay more for a product that does its job well but, just as importantly, will last a very long time, preferably for the rest of our lives. Here are six principles of “buying it for life” that I suggested earlier, along with a few extra ones:
1. We prefer to pay more now to not have to deal with replacing an item for a very, very long time. Ideally, I’d like to not have to replace it in my lifetime – and I’m in my mid-thirties.
2. We tend to strongly favor companies that put extensive warranties or guarantees on their products.
3. We tend to strongly prefer products that are low maintenance or have maintenance we can do ourselves.
What’s inside? Here are the questions answered in today’s reader mailbag, boiled down to five word summaries. Click on the number to jump straight down to the question.
1. College savings as gift?
2. Bullet journal
3. Company stocks
4. Unemployed; what’s next?
5. “Sell by” date on food
6. Will I need it later?
7. Roth IRA advantages?
8. Losing an income
9. Fuel efficiency savings
A few days ago, I put an hour aside to watch this amazing presentation from Elizabeth Warren. Entitled “The Coming Collapse of the Middle Class,” Warren’s presentation makes the case that many, many factors are working against the ability of the middle class to maintain their standard of living. She delivered this presentation at the University of California at Berkeley in 2007 when she was a professor at Harvard Law School. If you have an hour, this is something that’s really worth watching. Here’s the video:
Here are six specific points I pulled from the presentation. (If you watched the video and pulled out five points, you’d probably find some different ones.)
One topic I see referenced quite often in personal finance books – especially books focused on retirement – is the idea of rebalancing. It’s often discussed as though the writer assumes that the reader knows what rebalancing is, but given the confusion I sometimes see in reader emails, I don’t think the idea of rebalancing is often clear to people.
So, let’s walk step by step through the story of rebalancing. I’m going to look at this with regards to retirement savings, but it’s true for any kind of investments.
It All Starts With Risk
Finding a cheap life insurance policy that offers the right amount of coverage is at the forefront of any first-time buyer’s mind. The same goes for someone who’s simply looking for a better rate.
If you want to get the most affordable life insurance, there are several things you can do to minimize costs. I have six tips to help you find cheap life insurance, which I’ll be sharing with you in this article.
It’s true there are factors you have less control over when it comes to the cost of life insurance, but there’s a lot within your control too.
Here are the 2 basic starting points for getting cheap life insurance:
For your convenience, I’ve included a quote tool below so you can find the most affordable life insurance in your area.
It isn’t very hard to come across stories of people who thought they had everything planned out, only to see everything come apart at the seams. They lost their job. Their car fell apart. Their apartment building burned to the ground. They got sick. Their child or spouse got sick. Someone stole their identity. They got a new boss who turned out to be psychotic.
Quite often, this unexpected change completely derailed their plans. They had to default on debt because of this change. They were unable to pay their other bills. Their work performance declined drastically.
It’s pretty much the same story every single time. Someone has a great plan for their future and can see how they’re going to achieve their big goal. Then something unexpected happens. At the first sign of trouble, their plans fold like an accordion.
Now is the time to find the best credit monitoring service so you can protect yourself from identity theft. According to a study by the Pew Research Center, 18% of adults had some form of personal data stolen last year — up from 11% in 2013. The year was also marked by a number of massive breaches at high-profile companies, including JPMorgan, Target, Home Depot, and eBay. Most recently, in 2015, health-insurance giant Anthem suffered an attack and says the data of millions of customers could be vulnerable.
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