I used to change my own oil. Now I always get deals for about $30 for 3 oil changes plus other auto services. Why pay more and do it yourself when you can pay less and do something else while someone else does the work?
The most inappropriate question I get asked is "When are you/Are you going to have kids?". The answer is, I don't know, and it's really noone else's business whether I do or not. There are TONS of people who can't have children without medical assistance (3 of my friends are in this situation) and questions like that seem innocent but are really hurtful to people who either can't or don't want to have kids. Some of the people asking these questions are quite dense, and I highly doubt that replying "Why do you ask?" the next time someone asks me or comments on me having kids is going to make them realize they said something inappropriate.
I'm a relatively new employee, and one lady who I've barely said more than "Hi" to stopped in my office one day and asked, "I meant to ask you, do you have kids?" (which, considering we've barely spoken, is a very odd way to try to start a conversation with someone). When I replied no with a little laugh, she just kind of laughed weird while saying, "oh, oh..." and then just walked away. WTF was that?
Then at my last employer, there were some older ladies who would ask one little twit (female in her 20's) in my department when she was having kids. She would ALWAYS reply "Oh, I'm waiting on Claire" and laugh. WTF?!?!? She was such a b!t%h.
Why does everyone think it's their right to pester others with questions like "When are you going to get married" or "When are you having kids"? IT'S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS!!!
I just posted an ad to rent our rooms in our house over summer and got a reply from someone named Klara Smith and she says that her father is wiring a check to me for the rent, and also included in the check is money for me to pick up her car. She is allegedly moving from Europe so she needs to be picked up from the airport in her car and she says the check is already on its way. I have a gut feeling that this is the Overpayment Scam. Am I right? She asked for my address and name and phone number. Should I just block her emails?
Totally agree on all points... I think the hardest part for younger people, especially, is learning it's ok to set those boundaries and say "no" specifically in the "investment" arena. Unfortunately we often equate money or things (over-giving) with love. i.e. "if you care about me you'll financially support this venture." "If you love your family you'll make that way too expensive and stressful vacation happen no matter what" "I am going to love myself by purchasing that car that I really can't afford" It's ridiculous... Loving your articles, Jacob McMillen!!
When I have a long day, I play with my nephews. Something about pretending to be a dinosaur or an astronaut helps me get perspective. There are more important things than work.
A child who doesn't sleep in a safe crib is at risk of SIDS. While it may be less expensive, it's certainly doesn't outweigh the cost of a child potentially dying from SIDS.
honestly, cooking something makes me relax. chopping, stirring, something about repetitive motions to get me outta my head helps....plus then i have something nice to eat....a win win!
I like to take a long hot bath! Then eat a hot yummy dessert and unwind watching Netflix!
I used to change my own oil. Now I always get deals for about $30 for 3 oil changes plus other auto services. Why pay more and do it yourself when you can pay less and do something else while someone else does the work?
The most inappropriate question I get asked is "When are you/Are you going to have kids?". The answer is, I don't know, and it's really noone else's business whether I do or not. There are TONS of people who can't have children without medical assistance (3 of my friends are in this situation) and questions like that seem innocent but are really hurtful to people who either can't or don't want to have kids. Some of the people asking these questions are quite dense, and I highly doubt that replying "Why do you ask?" the next time someone asks me or comments on me having kids is going to make them realize they said something inappropriate.
I'm a relatively new employee, and one lady who I've barely said more than "Hi" to stopped in my office one day and asked, "I meant to ask you, do you have kids?" (which, considering we've barely spoken, is a very odd way to try to start a conversation with someone). When I replied no with a little laugh, she just kind of laughed weird while saying, "oh, oh..." and then just walked away. WTF was that?
Then at my last employer, there were some older ladies who would ask one little twit (female in her 20's) in my department when she was having kids. She would ALWAYS reply "Oh, I'm waiting on Claire" and laugh. WTF?!?!? She was such a b!t%h.
Why does everyone think it's their right to pester others with questions like "When are you going to get married" or "When are you having kids"? IT'S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS!!!
A long hot bath, a cuddle with my kids, and an episode of my favorite TV show help me relax and unwind after a long day working!
I enjoy watching TV or reading a good book. And there is often some form of chocolate or other sweet treat in there too.
I just posted an ad to rent our rooms in our house over summer and got a reply from someone named Klara Smith and she says that her father is wiring a check to me for the rent, and also included in the check is money for me to pick up her car. She is allegedly moving from Europe so she needs to be picked up from the airport in her car and she says the check is already on its way. I have a gut feeling that this is the Overpayment Scam. Am I right? She asked for my address and name and phone number. Should I just block her emails?
My husband and I like to take a picnic dinner to the lake after work. It is so relaxing and peaceful.
The best one is the googly eyes! I'm totally doing that!!
Maybe watch a funny tv show or read a bit of a good book. Yoga is also always nice too.
I like doing something quiet near my husband. We like to sit on the sofa together doing different things — reading, watching a computer or a movie.
Totally agree on all points... I think the hardest part for younger people, especially, is learning it's ok to set those boundaries and say "no" specifically in the "investment" arena. Unfortunately we often equate money or things (over-giving) with love. i.e. "if you care about me you'll financially support this venture." "If you love your family you'll make that way too expensive and stressful vacation happen no matter what" "I am going to love myself by purchasing that car that I really can't afford" It's ridiculous... Loving your articles, Jacob McMillen!!
I usually do a little reading in bed before going to sleep. Taking a run and a shower is nice too, when I have the time.
A cup of tea and a good book, or one of my favorite shows on Hulu.
I love a drive through the country side during the sunset. (the gas isn't free, but hey it's only a couple bucks!).
#1 is so true.. especially when it comes to eating out and entertainment heh.
Nothing like a home cooked meal and some fine drinks :)
Decaf coffee and Netflix
When I have a long day, I play with my nephews. Something about pretending to be a dinosaur or an astronaut helps me get perspective. There are more important things than work.
A child who doesn't sleep in a safe crib is at risk of SIDS. While it may be less expensive, it's certainly doesn't outweigh the cost of a child potentially dying from SIDS.
http://blogs.babycenter.com/mom_stories/05222013-new-co-sleeping-study-r...
I spend some time sitting out on our back porch, looking at the plants & flowers. After dinner, we generally take a walk through the neighborhood.
I go swimming every night after work. It's like meditating and it relaxes and tires me enough that I sleep like a baby.
honestly, cooking something makes me relax. chopping, stirring, something about repetitive motions to get me outta my head helps....plus then i have something nice to eat....a win win!
I go for a walk with my dogs to get us all some exercise and to clear my head.
I like to cook dinner and kick back with a movie on Netflix.
Beer! All kidding aside, video games, gardening, or just playing with my 3 year old and our dogs.